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#1
Feb 03, 2011, 03:32 AM
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does anyone know the signs of an abusive friendship.
particulary between a male and female. I can't figure this out but, I'm thinking I'm ready to end it but, I keep getting sick every night because I'm scared too. hopefully this doesnt sound too dramatic! he lives an hour away from me, only when I go to visit my parents would i ever see him but, i know he wants to see me this weekend. but, the point is... i'm technically pretty safe and everything. my best friend of 9 years, thats a girl...keeps begging me to get out of this... i am at the point where i can't even mention his name in front of her. lol.
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#2
Feb 03, 2011, 01:04 PM
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Jazzy, your gut tells you when things aren't right. You already know the signs, you just haven't been listening to yourself. Why are you scared to end this relationship?
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#3
Feb 04, 2011, 11:29 AM
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Warning signs of abusive personalities (may be triggering!) http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/Abuser/signs.htm
But I definitely agree with Sannah - if your gut is telling you something like "get out of this relationship" then that's something you really need to pay attention to!
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Feb 04, 2011, 03:17 PM
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he's cursed me out and been very forceful with me on the simple things, so on something bigger like this, ummmmm... idk...i just don't want him to overreact.
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.Maya Angelou. so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456 ---------------------------- "You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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Feb 04, 2011, 03:23 PM
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Ahhh, I see, well certainly don't do it alone then.
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Feb 04, 2011, 03:27 PM
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i would do it over the phone, most likely....but, i just caved and texted him about something irrelevant and ughhh i know i shouldn't have done that..... he's a hard person to be around, it feels like i am a friend with someone who has a split personality...theres this part of him that is WONDERFUL and then theres this other part that is not so wonderful.
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.Maya Angelou. so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456 ---------------------------- "You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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Feb 04, 2011, 03:36 PM
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Why did you feel the need to text him?
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Feb 04, 2011, 03:58 PM
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because of something that happened last night. its over now though. i stopped texting him but, i'm sure when i come back in town he's gonna wanna hang out. but, i'll just say i'm busy. i guess i'm trying to deal with this situation passively, like never hang out with him...and be distant. i'm hoping that will work.
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.Maya Angelou. so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456 ---------------------------- "You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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#9
Feb 04, 2011, 04:01 PM
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Good luck to you. Keep us posted?
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