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Member Since Apr 2010
Location: Atlanta
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I've noticed that I don't have an issue telling- telling what has happened- what circumstances have occured in life. My issue just lies in who I tell. I can tell my therapist or a close friend easy. But, what about the most important people in your life-family members! Those are the hardest people to tell! & I mean, in general, not just abuse secrets but, painful memories. whose with me on this? They can tell things to people, they just can't manage to tell the issue to the ones who matter the most.
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Poohbah
Member Since Oct 2009
Location: Louisianna
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I am this way but likely for a different reason, my family caused the pain and to bring it up would cause a confrontation. But i cant tell mom some things because i know it would break her heart. Although im sure she already knows i dont want to reopen that can
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Legendary
Member Since Jul 2008
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My mom is totally deaf because she was the cause. Is your family responsive to you?
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