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Went out partying one night in March. Ran into an old friend and a buddy of his.
Ended up back at someone's house making out with the buddy. Said buddy (which claims he was sober) ends up in a room with with a very not sober girl. Not so sober girl says stop. "Ugh, are you kidding me?!" And does not stop. Not so sober girl bursts into tears, someone comes in the room. A month later sober boy and not so sober girl start dating. They're together for three months when he breaks up with her because she's a mess. Was not so sober girl raped? Because she really doesn't know what to think of this. Is it really rape if you date the sober boy? |
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I believe it was rape because not so sober girl said no. she was taken against her will. It does not matter what happened a month down the line. Dating a month down the line could have been not so sober's girls way of trying to erase the rape in her own mind and turning it into a prequel to a relationship. If she ended up with sober boy and they lived out their lives together, then it was love, meant to be, that first indescretion could be overlooked, erased. but relationship didnt work, as you say, not so sober girl was a mess, because no matter why, her mind could not accept these rationalizations.
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Yeah....
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It doesnt matter if you are dating, partners, married whatever the relationship, its still rape if someone says No and the other person continues anyway.
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