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May 09, 2006 at 11:17 PM
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today in session i talked about a really painful memory. When i was 9, the next door neighbors got clues that perhaps abuse was happening. Nothing was ever said until they got into a fight with my mom about another issue, and they used it to degrade our family. They said horrible things about me...and it hurts so much that someone would use sexual abuse claims in a fight, that they sat on it until they needed to use it, and that they would call me a the equivalent of a sl-t. I hated myself then and its hard not to do the same now. i just want it to go away.
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May 09, 2006 at 11:54 PM
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omg esthersvirtue... I'm so sorry ... that had to hurt dreadfully. No child deserves that
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May 10, 2006 at 09:23 AM
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((((((((((((((((((ev)))))))))))))))))))
People can be so cruel and I'm sorry that you, as a child, were subjected to any cruelties. To pile them on an innocent is beyond comprehension. I'm sorry, and understand, that pain. Love and respect, KD __________________ 
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May 10, 2006 at 09:41 AM
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So very sorry this happened to you. Dumping on children rather than helping them....... I don'tget it. Cowardly behavior in my book. You are the courageous one.
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May 10, 2006 at 01:09 PM
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We all have such pain of our childhoods... I am sorry about what happened to you...I hope all of our pain can be contained... Peace and Blessings to you dear dear {{{{{Estersvirtue.}}}}}....
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May 10, 2006 at 03:06 PM
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that is so cruel and cowardly to do something like that to anyone especially a child..... I just don't understand some people and how they seem to "enjoy" hurting others
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May 10, 2006 at 08:14 PM
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((((((((((((((EV)))))))))))))))) What a terrible thing to say to a child. I am so sorry you experienced that. Some people can be so cruel.
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May 10, 2006 at 08:29 PM
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thanks everyone... i guess i've noticed that i carry that around allot.. think no one likes me, being embarrassed of myself,thinking im a horrible person. it hurts.
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May 10, 2006 at 08:43 PM
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There's some sick twisted and hate filled people pot there, don't allow them to make you feel this way....I know at the time you were just a baby, and I'm sure you could not help but feel that way. But now, as an adult, don't let that bring you down.
Those people sound like horrible people, no child ever....no matter how awful they are behavior wise deserves to be called such a nasty name. __________________ 
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May 11, 2006 at 11:56 AM
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