Does Your T Ask To See Wounds?

I don't know if anyone can answer this for me, but I am wondering if you are currently being abused...does your T ask to see a wound that perhaps you have bandaged? I went home this weekend, my dad was angry, and long story short, I have a burn on my neck that I have a bandage over. I'm wondering if my T is going to ask to see it. I'm sure it depends on the T but I have a feeling my T will ask to see to make sure that I am taking care of myself and that I will see a doctor if I need to about it. Does anybody have any experience with this? I know a lot of Ts ask to see self-harm wounds (I don't self harm though), so I guess I don't see why this would be any different. What do you think?

I'm a little anxious about this meeting, I feel like such a disappointment and so stupid when I walk in there with a wound after I went home for a weekend thinking I'd be ok. I never know when it's going to happen until it does, it comes without warning and I can't stop it. I feel like my T is going to think I'm naive for going home and be disappointed that I made that decision. She knew I was going to go home as I told her last week, so it's not like I kept it a secret but in the back of my head I knew it was a bad idea and I know she knew it too, but I went anyway... I just feel like an idiot. We talked about renting a hotel room (I was going home to volunteer in a function that I do every year, not really going home to see my family) and I tried to but you have to be 21 in my town and surrounding towns to rent a hotel room which I am not. This is just messed up .

I think mostly likely yes, unless you have a very good excuse? Their primary concern is about your safety.

You cant blame yourself for going home!! Its not your fault youre not an.idiot and your T will know that.

Who knows but whether she sees the wound itself or not she'll see the bandage, so I wouldnt worry too much. If you feel you need to show her do.

Chin up