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Old Jul 22, 2008, 11:44 PM
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sometimes it is hard to NOT get angry or triggered when trying to support others...which i want to do....%#@&#! %#@&#! damn !!!! %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!# %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!# %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!#
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 02:31 AM
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 02:39 AM
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 05:14 AM
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yes it is easy to be triggered hon, if you're not in a good place yourself take care of YOU .... you are important .... you have always been supportive, sometimes YOU need support .... take care hon,, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxo
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 09:15 AM
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((Roz)) practice kind and peaceful gentleness with yourself so you are better able to help others as they also learn and grow to find inner peace.. best healing wishes to you also... try to have a few back up plans for self support.. supporting others should not cause you distress, its supposed to be a kind, caring, enjoyable and rewarding experience.. if it hurts you are doing something incorrectly.. best wishes for you always %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!#
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 06:20 PM
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((((((((Kerry))))))))

thanks for replying....yes i must say i am not good at practicing good self care as i always feel i am being selfish....but i am learning.

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Old Jul 23, 2008, 06:22 PM
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((((Darrel))))

i think my main problem is i give all my care to others and forget about my self which always leads to meltdown for me.

i am trying to learn that i do have some worth it's just hard for me to believe with my background.

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Old Jul 23, 2008, 10:02 PM
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I agree it's hard, you think you are supporting someone and they don't feel it. Then I get my feelings hurt because I never want to hurt anyone.
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 10:27 PM
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you get it angel, sometimes i try to, help but peeps no get ...lol %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!# %#@&#! %#@&#! %$!#
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 10:48 PM
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((((((((((((((((((Roz)))))))))))))))))))

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You know .... i think we all do our very best to support each other here .... for saying it is such a massive site .... we do ok ....

sometimes we do try to help and succeed, sometimes we help and because of the way we are feeling ourselves, feel maybe we didn't do enough, but if you reply to someone who is hurting even with just a hug, it shows you care .... even if there are not words of comfort ......

I think it was Sky who said ... some people are trigered by the amount of people who read and don't reply ... if each of those people gave a hug it would make a difference ... then I'm guilty of reading sometimes and not giving a hug .... just a thought ...

we are all here because we are struggling in one way or another .... we reach out and we touch, you are both wonderful people.

Love you, Kerry xoxoxoxoo
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Old Jul 23, 2008, 11:07 PM
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with care and correct wording and peace and kindness and love
I think we all agree to agree we all support each other
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