FAQ/Help |
Calendar |
Search |
Grand Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2007
Location: Israel
Posts: 1,579
17 144 hugs
given |
#1
to tell someone who was sort of abused
"it is yoiur fault" |
Reply With Quote |
Guest
Posts: n/a
|
#2
what is stupid about it to you?
|
Reply With Quote |
Member
Member Since Apr 2007
Posts: 79
17 |
#3
Ya. It it stupid. It isn't right. For you, it was NOT your falt. Not ones falt but the stupid ab*ser...,. He/She planted that inside you to make you an easier target to get at.
ShadowsinTheDay __________________ - What you don't know CAN h*rt you. What they don't tell you WILL destroy you... (Sorry,I can take these out if you want...) |
Reply With Quote |
Guest
Posts: n/a
|
#4
so sorry.. i thought your post said you thought it was stupid to tell someone that it isnt your fault.
I misread. I apologize. of course it isnt your fault if you were abused. |
Reply With Quote |
Grand Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2007
Location: Israel
Posts: 1,579
17 144 hugs
given |
#5
well i mean-that NO MATTER if you actually GOT YOURSELF into that situation when you are an easy target-but you EVEN DON`T KNOW that you are!
only after it......you can understand. when you start SUFFERING. i don`t consider myself a hard case. mine was LIGHT thank God. and i didn`t know i was actually being used/abused untill i told some of my friends and they said "he raped you" which wasn`t true but still. PARTICULATY, what i learned from it is to never do anyhting that i don`t want to do. so one friend of mine said "it was your fault becasue you let him do it." yep i was in SUCH A %#@&#! SHOCK that i didn`t reject. anyways i guess it was the only way i LEARNED. |
Reply With Quote |
Reply |
|
Similar Threads | ||||
Thread | Forum | |||
im so stupid | Self Injury | |||
Stupid paper, stupid depression, grrrrrrr | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
Stupid website...stupid family | Self Injury | |||
Stupid | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
STUPID!STUPID!STUPID!WHY AM I SO STUPID????? triggering!! | Self Injury |