Realising that maybe..

Fuzzybear · Jun 27, 2015 at 01:06 PM

Possible trigger:

I think I'm finally realising that maybe the step ***** and the rest of the ****ed up abusers who violated me with their cruel words and physical assaults were maybe just wrong! Just because I've always looked different? The ugly duckling or the baby bear in a playground of "humans"... Just because they didn't get me and never will... Doesn't mean I ever deserved their abuse.!!

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kaliope · Jun 27, 2015 at 01:11 PM

yes, fuzzy, they were very wrong. this was never ever about you. it was always about them being very ****ed up individuals. always remember that. repeat it every day. write it down over and over again. IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!

Frankbtl · Jun 27, 2015 at 01:39 PM

Hi Fuzzy,

Really pleased for you that you're starting to realise that/feel that more............of course you were probably theoretically very aware of it.........including having plenty of people telling you that

but it is very different from really realising/feeling/believing it deep down isn't it?

So, yes, really pleased you're starting to realise it!! Because they WERE wrong, you NEVER deserved it!!

But I know as well that that might bring up some real hard to handle feelings

So while you're trying to work through those, just try to focus as well on how special you were then, how special you are now, how you deserve to be treated, and the people around you who actually do treat you that way including reaching out for support from them (and I hope that includes us!!

).

Alison

BLUEDOVE · Jun 27, 2015 at 02:07 PM

Because the child is dependent on parents for survival,it is
unthinkable for the child to blame them,so it does the only thing
left to it . . . . . .it blames itself . . . this is true,not an opinion!
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE

SeekerOfLife · Jul 03, 2015 at 01:50 PM

Fuzzybear

kindachaotic · Jul 04, 2015 at 05:35 PM

Fuzzy, I am just so so sorry.
Wish I had words to make it better.
Please know you are loved.

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kaliope Legendary Wise Elder Community Liaison Member Since Jun 2011 Location: somewhere, out there Posts: 36,240 (SuperPoster!) 12 9,987 hugs given	Jun 27, 2015 at 01:11 PM #2 yes, fuzzy, they were very wrong. this was never ever about you. it was always about them being very **ed up individuals. always remember that. repeat it every day. write it down over and over again. IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!** __________________ kali's gallery http://forums.psychcentral.com/creat...s-gallery.html
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BLUEDOVE Grand Member Member Since Nov 2011 Posts: 794 12 898 hugs given	Jun 27, 2015 at 02:07 PM #4 Because the child is dependent on parents for survival,it is unthinkable for the child to blame them,so it does the only thing left to it . . . . . .it blames itself . . . this is true,not an opinion! Deepest Respect, BLUEDOVE
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SeekerOfLife Legendary Member Since Jul 2013 Location: Foothills, where I belong Posts: 14,593 (SuperPoster!) 10 4,064 hugs given	Jul 03, 2015 at 01:50 PM #5 Fuzzybear
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kindachaotic Grand Poohbah Member Since Aug 2011 Location: Southeast US Posts: 1,834 12 5,594 hugs given	Jul 04, 2015 at 05:35 PM #6 Fuzzy, I am just so so sorry. Wish I had words to make it better. Please know you are loved.
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