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Location: Australia
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May 20, 2007 at 08:12 AM
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i'm 17 years old and i'm upset about what i've done to mum coz of what happened with mums boyfriend a few months ago.
he used to get me to touch him (and other stuf that i dont really want to go into detail about). i told mum and she broke up with him. but now shes really upset all the time and doesnt have anyone in her life and its all my fault. i accept most of the responsibility for what happened with her boyfriend and i feel terrible for making them break up. |
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May 20, 2007 at 08:32 AM
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its not your fault thou
he was the one that started it he abused you you didnt abuse him your mother then made her choice and it was a good one she needs to realize shes not alone she does have someone in her life YOU and that you both did the right thing you for telling and her for listening and protecting you |
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May 20, 2007 at 10:41 AM
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((((((((((((((heatm002))))))))))))))))
i admire and respect you for what you have done. my mums b/f did the same to me from when i was 8 - 15 and i didnt dare tell her until i was 15 and she didn't believe me. you did the right thing and so did your mum. you were abused. your mum loves you and did the right thing, dont ever ever think otherwise. she is probably more upset at what he did to you. she will find love again with a man who isn't a bully and an abuser. good for you sweetie, be proud of yourself not guilty. i wish i'd have had your courage. take care, jinnyann xoxoxoxoxox |
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May 23, 2007 at 07:11 AM
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thank you both jinnyann and bronee
your kind words mean a lot to me right now |
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May 24, 2007 at 03:35 PM
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I am very sorry that you are struggling at this time with all of these emotional issues. It was not your fault what happened. Are you able to see someone professional (a therapist) about what happened to you? Your mother may also need professional help in dealing with the pain she is feeling as well. Take care of yourself. (((HEATM))). Soidhonia __________________ The Caged Bird Sings with a Fearful Trill of Things Unknown and Longed for Still and his Tune is Heard on the Distant Hill for the Caged Bird Sings of Freedom |
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