Is this abuse? How to deal with it?

Artchic528 · Jul 24, 2016 at 01:06 AM

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Is being held down against your will as a girl of 12 by your older brother, and being touched on your bare butt by a close family friend's son considered abuse? If so, that scenario happened to me.

How does one deal with events like this in their past?

QueenCopper · Jul 24, 2016 at 06:57 AM

Did your older brother touch you or did he hold you down for your family friend? I personally don't believe any unwanted touch is acceptable.

Artchic528 · Jul 24, 2016 at 07:01 AM

He held me down for the family friend's son to touch me. It was very much an unwanted touch.

ABeautifulLie · Aug 02, 2016 at 12:15 AM

Hi Artchic since you didnt want the touch I would consider it abuse.Im not too sure how to deal with it but maybe you can talk to your T about it if you have one or a trusted friend. Hope you're doing well

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QueenCopper Member Member Since Aug 2013 Location: Indiana Posts: 304 11 64 hugs given	Jul 24, 2016 at 06:57 AM #2 Did your older brother touch you or did he hold you down for your family friend? I personally don't believe any unwanted touch is acceptable.
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Artchic528 Supreme Artisan Member Since Nov 2014 Location: Charlotte, NC Posts: 6,618 9 205 hugs given	Jul 24, 2016 at 07:01 AM #3 He held me down for the family friend's son to touch me. It was very much an unwanted touch. __________________ MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!! [UPDATED: 4/30/2017] LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!!
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ABeautifulLie Member Member Since Jul 2016 Location: Planet Earth Posts: 104 8 808 hugs given	Aug 02, 2016 at 12:15 AM #4 Hi Artchic since you didnt want the touch I would consider it abuse.Im not too sure how to deal with it but maybe you can talk to your T about it if you have one or a trusted friend. Hope you're doing well __________________ "Do I really see everything for what it is Or is it that I can't see anything with such a bad case of denial"
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