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Oct 05, 2017, 01:11 AM
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I've been doing a lot of "processing" around my family of origin and childhood recently (I'm in my 30's, female). I always thought I had a great childhood except for my parents' divorce, but now I'm questioning some things and memories are popping into my head that I'm not sure how to interpret. Here's one:
I was 16 (possibly 17, but I think 16) home alone with a male friend of the family who I think was 23 at the time (he had graduated from college the year or two before). I really liked him; he was a bit of a Prince Charming in my life. He had a girlfriend who was out of town at the time, and we were the only 2 people in the house. He told me he was experiencing some pain on his penis, and asked if I could "help him out" or maybe it was "take a look". Ultimately I said no, but not because I saw anything wrong with the situation. I just thought, "poor guy is in pain, and since his girlfriend and my mom are not around, I'm the next logical person to ask for help." But I was completely inexperienced (never even kissed a boy before), and worried if I did something wrong it would get awkward and he wouldn't be able to come over anymore. So nothing happened. Then I forgot about it. COMPLETELY. Until 2 months ago. It popped into my head. QUESTION: Was this maybe just a poor choice on his part, maybe due to the fact that he was in pain? Or does it seem likely he was trying to get me into a sexual situation? I've always thought the world of this guy... I can't even get my head around the idea that he'd do something like that... |
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Oct 07, 2017, 06:03 PM
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I think there is absolutely no way this wasn't a predatorial situation. Nobody asks another person to look at their genitals unless its a doctor or a sexual situation. Sorry.
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Oct 07, 2017, 07:32 PM
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A 23 year old guy asking you to "help him out" and look at his penis?? That is the lamest come on that I have ever heard. Yep I smell a predator.
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Oct 08, 2017, 02:24 AM
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TOTAL predator.
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Oct 08, 2017, 05:50 AM
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Predator
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Oct 09, 2017, 11:39 PM
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Thank you all so much for validating that. Now I have a bunch of other people in my life to be suspicious of
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