I've realised I'm quite self-centered.. I spend a lot of time thinking about myself and making sure I'm alright.. I feel I need to start 'noticing' others, too.

I had to become self-centered as a child as I had no one else.. I had to start taking care of myself. And because I feared for my life at the hands of crazy parents, I became awfully forceful in making my own safety a priority. I honestly felt like I was living in a war zone..

But now I'm relatively safe.. Yes, there'll always be risks in life, but I'm not in that scary childhood environment anymore. I can relax in that sense.. And open myself up to other people and to life So thankful..!

[gmts]

Sounds good. Just take it step by step. Be open, but be willing to leave if things aren't going right for you. Best of luck !!!

[BLUEDOVE]

You sound good,and sane,but please,please be cautious.
For instance,do NOT reveal your abuse unless it is deeply
trusted friend.
Deepest Respect
BLUEDOVE