[Silvershade]

So, I'm 21, I've moved out of my parents house once.. but was forced to move back in because rent is actually unafordable.

(my sister is 2 years younger)
My /roomates/ won't stop invading my privacy,
My sister won't stop when I ask her to stop something until I physically get up an threaten to hurt her with an object or something.
like, we'll all be sitting having dinner she'll get up and start playing and laying piano and I'll ask her to stop, 400+ times and she won't stop till I physically hurt her, like I don't want to hurt her but piano music literally triggers me and she know that. She knows I hate it. My parents let her do whatever the **** she wants and she gets to play and play and play and I plead her to just stop what ever she is doing but my parents ignore me and let her keep on doing it.

My dad will come into my room and just linger and start messing with everything and I ask him to leave repeatedly and I ask him louder and he will tell me to "ask nicely" but no I'm pissed then, I'm very angry then, I want him out of my room I want him out of my private lair, he'll just stay in there and not leave till I physically remove him..

My mom will go through my trash my clothes and won't let me do my own washing,

since turning 21 I've been drinking a whole lot, every night, I mean I've only been 21 for a little while but drinking makes the thoughts go away...

ps. My parents let my sister drive when she was 16 but I was not allowed to. I feel that they're very very strongly showing favoritism towards her.

Is this abuse?
what kind of abuse?
how do I stop it?
What do I do?

[RubyRae]

Hi there.I'm a little confused,are you asking if your family is abusing you or the way you are reacting to them is you being abusive?If you are threatening others and being physical with them,threatening your sister with an object,then yes,it's abuse,you are abusing them.

It doesn't sound as if they are abusing you,maybe annoying you though.Are you in therapy for your anger issues and your reactions?That might be a good place to start and to also get help with drinking before it becomes a problem for you.

Best wishes to you.