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Aug 12, 2017, 07:22 AM
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How are you supposed to heal when it keeps happening? When you have known someone for years and have never ever made you unsafe and all of a sudden things are different.
 I feel like I can't do this anymore. I just want to give up this fight. Apparently the words and please don't do this are not acceptable and I just need to stop using them.
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 Crypts_Of_The_Mind, Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
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Aug 15, 2017, 05:31 PM
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Can you leave this person?
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Aug 15, 2017, 05:51 PM
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It actually was someone I have known all my life. I am not around them much. I am trying to find a way to stay away but that will include looking a very close friend (Not him).
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| Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
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Aug 22, 2017, 01:21 AM
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Promote pleasure, prevent pain...
Do what is right for YOU. hd7970ghz
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"stand for those who are forgotten - sacrifice for those who forget" "roller coasters not only go up and down - they also go in circles" "the point of therapy - is to get out of therapy" "don't put all your eggs - in one basket" "promote pleasure - prevent pain" "with change - comes loss" |
| QueenCopper
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Aug 22, 2017, 02:34 AM
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If you can't do it anymore, it's time to make a change.
Make a change that can be positive in your life. Think. What do you want for yourself? your future? Can you REALISTICALLY get that by staying with this person? If not, what kind of SAFE plan can you make to leave? There is no right or wrong here. Only choices. Choices you need to make. Nobody else can make them for you. People will, unfortunately, try to pass judgement on you regardless of your decisions. Don't worry about them. Worry about you. Your emotional, physical, and psychological well being. Your happiness. That's what matters. Do what you KNOW you need to do, and only YOU know.
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