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Mar 30, 2018, 09:09 PM
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Does everyone see sex as animalistic and no love involved?
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Mar 30, 2018, 09:26 PM
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Sex without love is just sex.
Sex with love is lovemaking. |
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Mar 30, 2018, 09:37 PM
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Mar 30, 2018, 09:53 PM
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The thing about it though is its all just animalistic sex and lust. Even if you love a person I dont believe its about love when you have sex just lust as SMRY said. I dont see any love in using someone elses body for gratification even if I do love them.
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Mar 31, 2018, 08:06 PM
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Mar 31, 2018, 09:13 PM
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SorryShaped that makes sense. I have been in love. I was married for 18 years and sex never enhanced the love for me at all.
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Mar 31, 2018, 09:18 PM
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Mar 31, 2018, 09:26 PM
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Well I just never linked sex with love even if we were both "serviced". I told my therapist how my husband said he wanted to have sex with me because he loved me and how I thought it was bs. She told me I had flawed thinking but things really got bad when I began having contamination issues.
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Mar 31, 2018, 09:45 PM
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If you have contamination issues, then sex isn't for you, even if you are calling it lovemaking.
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Mar 31, 2018, 09:47 PM
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Yes I know which is why I havent had it in 6 years. Not my cup of tea. I do get curious about where those issues come from though.
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Apr 01, 2018, 05:02 AM
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At this point after what I’ve been through, yes. |
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Apr 01, 2018, 05:03 AM
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That’s why I ended my marriage. I was shocked to realize I had signed up for a lifetime of that. |
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Apr 01, 2018, 05:06 AM
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I don’t have contamination issues but I haven’t had it in almost 3 years however I’m also a Christian so celibacy is healthy for me as a single woman. |
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