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Through therapy, I learned to have self compassion. If you weren't able to defend yourself at the time, forgive yourself for it. It's not easy to stand up to bullies. They shouldn't have bullied you in the first place. Be gentle with your younger, more hurt self. You had social anxiety, which makes it so difficult to be assertive. |
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Thank you so much for this post! I just came to ask if it's normal to still be affected after 20 years... We are not alone.
![]() It was the other way round for me. I got the **** beaten out of me for 2 years, physically and emotionally, never giving up a fight, until I decided I didn't care anymore. I acted as if nothing could hurt me for some time and they gave up. Must depend on the type of the bully you're up against. |
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Childhood - name-calling, teasing Adulthood - being used or being pressured to cater to someone's demands, more advanced psychological manipulation (sarcasm, passive-aggressive attacks, etc.) Therapy is always helpful. |
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I agree! That what I am trying to tell myself!
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