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Default Nov 12, 2018 at 04:24 AM
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i forgive you
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Default Nov 12, 2018 at 05:07 AM
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why did you have kids if all you were planning to do was to abandon them and try your best to end their lives

you sick ****er. you don't deserve kids and you certainly don't deserve love
 
 
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it amazes me that you can go off to another country and act like I'm dead and I'm nothing to you
 
 
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I could send some of them a letter I guess. But I don’t think they are worth my time..



Although if I do turn into a polar bear I will eat that therapist . I would probably have indigestion for months
I think writing a letter of restorative justice is valuable....it says...this is what you did; this is how it made me feel. The letter is for YOU, not the abuser.
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Default Nov 14, 2018 at 02:25 PM
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Because of you I wish I was dead. And will probably go through with it eventually. I used drugs to escape the nausea that follows me around just from remembering how you made me this way.

May you suffer the consequences in hell.
 
 
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Default Nov 14, 2018 at 02:38 PM
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I hope you're living in utter squalor & filth. I hope your daily existence is pure Misery...
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Default Nov 14, 2018 at 07:41 PM
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YOU DESTROYED MY LIFE!!!

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Default Nov 16, 2018 at 12:38 AM
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i forgive you
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Wow thats deep

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Default Nov 21, 2018 at 01:32 PM
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You mean nothing to me,you are both obnoxious,selfish,violent abusers,you use money to get what you want and look good,you think giving me money whitewashes your reputation and buy you your innocence.I will never stop despising you,you have left me with a mountain of hurt that will always leave me with wounds and scars.I do not care one iota about either of you,you have each other now see how that works cos you are not beating me up and violating my integrity anymore.I do not care about either of you anymore,you are both evil demons.You abuse me,deny it,and turn around and play the victims yourself,I am repulsed by you,one of you even tried to kill me and still for the sake of the other I allowed you to reestablish communications,big mistake but at least God showed me how much you both hate me and hold me in contempt.I now see the depth of your malice towards me,I don't need you,I never needed you,even though you deliberately worked to make me dependent on you and lose my personal power and self identity,I could always make it without you,I know that now.You are both dead to me now.
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Give me a reason to want to forgive you

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Default Nov 23, 2018 at 02:17 AM
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I hate your slimy guts. U ate me alive & destroyed my entire wonderful future, I could have had. Suffer horribly every single day & I hope u struggle to breathe air. I also hope u are absolutely miserable and in serious pain, daily.
And that's Real....End of story
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Default Dec 04, 2018 at 07:05 PM
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There are so many things I want to say to my abuser this website don't have enough room for all of it (not all of it's appropriate either).

One thing I would say is "I hate you, you cheated me out of a childhood and out of a relationship with my younger siblings. I didn't deserve any of the pain you've caused me. May you suffer in Hell for the rest of eternity."
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Default Dec 04, 2018 at 07:44 PM
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I have one of my abusers that lives in my home. I guess I am a coward, bc he has been here for over 3 years, and I have never brought it up. I have never been one for confrotion, and avoid it at all costs. Baby steps so far.
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Default Dec 11, 2018 at 11:04 PM
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Was it really worth the rest of your life in prison?
In all that time, you never once said I'm sorry to me for me. Just a generic I'm sorry at your sentencing...BS....
I waited years for a version of "I'm sorry"...instead you died in prison...

Time is wasted in hateful talk and such toward abusers. I did very thing, however to what avail?
Why waste your life hating someone or something you can't change cause it's in the past.

I laugh at the very thing you got locked up for...these days youd just be considered gay...
Gay is the normalization of abuse in my opinion....
I've dealt with issues 40 years now since sexual abuse first began....
Real issue these days no one still wants to hear about it besides some wanna be therapists who was not abused....How can therapist really help someone in area they haven't personally experienced?BS is 95% of the talk from them....most just want repetitive clients to keep practice going...no intrest in patients....just come back....
I've found 3 out of 17 in my 40+ years of dealing with abuse that seemed genuine in caring for person...
But ultimately I dare say most therapists dont care about you like they would if it more personal to them...ie...someone they love...
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Default Dec 19, 2018 at 02:41 PM
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I want to say to my abusers I don't get it,I was a complete stranger ,I did nothing to you,yet you stuck your nose in my business to find out about me going out of your way to dig up the dirt then you used this is seriously damage my emotional and mental health.Why,was it a game? Did you get a sick sadistic pleasure out of it?You are all despicable,sick sadists,I hope karma gets you.
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Default Dec 20, 2018 at 12:12 AM
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I want to say to my abusers I don't get it,I was a complete stranger ,I did nothing to you,yet you stuck your nose in my business to find out about me going out of your way to dig up the dirt then you used this is seriously damage my emotional and mental health.Why,was it a game? Did you get a sick sadistic pleasure out of it?You are all despicable,sick sadists,I hope karma gets you.


Ditto for me too. Add perverts to my abusers. They certainly enjoyed destroying me!!! Had nothing better to do with their empty lives.
 
 
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Trig Dec 21, 2018 at 05:23 PM
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My mother died about 5 years ago. She had a month or two left unbeknownst to me. One day I let it all hang out. Harangued her for about 40 minutes non-stop. Gave it to her, both barrels.


This was a woman who never did in all her life, ever mellow the hell out. She was ugly to the end.


Did me a lot of good to tell her off, and I recommend it, and I don't care how long they have left.

The only unfortunate thing about her dying is that she's not here so I can tell her off again. No way did I hardly scratch the surface.

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Default Dec 21, 2018 at 05:27 PM
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Cara8tz and others: yes humans are nasty animals and don't need a reason.
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Default Dec 21, 2018 at 05:30 PM
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Was it really worth the rest of your life in prison?
In all that time, you never once said I'm sorry to me for me. Just a generic I'm sorry at your sentencing...BS....
I waited years for a version of "I'm sorry"...instead you died in prison...

Time is wasted in hateful talk and such toward abusers. I did very thing, however to what avail?
Why waste your life hating someone or something you can't change cause it's in the past.

I laugh at the very thing you got locked up for...these days youd just be considered gay...
Gay is the normalization of abuse in my opinion....
I've dealt with issues 40 years now since sexual abuse first began....
Real issue these days no one still wants to hear about it besides some wanna be therapists who was not abused....How can therapist really help someone in area they haven't personally experienced?BS is 95% of the talk from them....most just want repetitive clients to keep practice going...no intrest in patients....just come back....
I've found 3 out of 17 in my 40+ years of dealing with abuse that seemed genuine in caring for person...
But ultimately I dare say most therapists dont care about you like they would if it more personal to them...ie...someone they love...
I don't think gay is a normalization of abuse at all. Gay sex between two consensual adults is not abuse. Now if it with a child or something like rape, then yes it is abuse. Men still go to jail for raping children or other men.
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Cara8tz and others: yes humans are nasty animals and don't need a reason.

Doesn't that make them psychopaths? It is not normal to enjoy abusing other people (physically or emotionally same thing to me).

Not normal at all.
 
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