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Wisest Elder Ever
Member Since Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
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#1
You make me sick. Look at yourself and YOUR sickness for once. Stop your sick sick games. Get a grip and stop harming good people
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
Location: US
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#2
It's tough to come up with something, but I am going to go with:
I wish you had been sorry for what you did. |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Sep 2010
Location: North Carolina
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#3
I wish you'd realized how much your issues caused pain in your immediate family.
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#4
I wish you realized how much you hurt me by what you said in the end. That was vicious and cruel beyond belief -- do you have any idea what that did to me? Who says that kind of thing except someone who is a total and complete monster? Only a monster would treat someone that way.... you are the spawn of the devil himself and I want nothing more to do with you, you scumbag A-hole. You never even deserved someone like me. I gave you everything, and that's how I get treated? How dare you treat me that way, after ALL I did for you.
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#5
I want to say
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Member
Member Since Aug 2018
Location: Nowheresville
Posts: 233
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#6
I don't really have anything to say so much as things I want to do. I'd like to cut off his hands. So he knows he can't put them just anywhere he wants. I think that says way more than I ever can with words.
__________________ Because in truth, I am that monster.
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Member Since Dec 2014
Location: USA
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#7
I’ve never been one to mince words. I said what I wanted to say whether it be by letter or to their face, even said it with silence and simply moving on without words. It felt good to get it out and they had it comin’. Did they care? Did it get under their skin? Did it matter? Probably not. But it helped me heal. Unless they are dead, it’s never too late to give them a what for. Take it from the Americans, we’ve let the bar down as low as it goes!
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Wisest Elder Ever
Member Since Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,331
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#8
I could send some of them a letter I guess. But I don’t think they are worth my time..
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Sep 2010
Location: North Carolina
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#9
Fuzzy, you could write the letter and get your feelings out. But, honestly, I doubt they would understand. Have you read the book Toxic Parents? That might help.
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Member
Member Since Sep 2018
Location: New York
Posts: 102
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#10
"you hurt me terribly. i will try to forgive, even though ou don't deserve it"
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#11
I cannot forgive your words, but I forgive you for being such a broken and tormented person in your heart and soul that you have to say such cruel things to make yourself feel better. It's very sad and pathetic that in order to feel better about yourself, and in order to protect yourself from any blame and responsibility, that you have to hurt someone else and make it seem different than it truly was. Keep lying and fooling yourself. I know the real truth.
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#13
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((Fuzzybear)) My hug buttons are not working but hugs to you Fuzzy & thanks for your post. Abusers: Stop hurting people. |
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smiling musical soul
Member Since Mar 2010
Location: Indy
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#14
I was three. How do you look at a baby and think that's ok to do? How? I want a reason an answer something to wrap my head around.
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Elder
Member Since Jul 2017
Location: USA
Posts: 5,376
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#15
Thanks SO very much for my lifetime of alcoholism! I hope u suffer daily like I do! I wish u nothing but pain & misery until u die.
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Member
Member Since Nov 2015
Location: New York
Posts: 190
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#16
“Does being cruel give you an adrenaline rush?”
I actually have a lot to say to her, but I’ve learned that she thrives on having a fight, about anything, anytime, and in the end just devalues me, everything I say and everything I think. So I write it all down, and my replies, but I dont ever show it to her, and that works fine for me. |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Apr 2015
Location: USA
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#17
Leave me alone! I can't take it anymore! Stop ganging up on me with your husband! Get some help!
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Wisest Elder Ever
Member Since Nov 2002
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#18
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Elder
Member Since Jul 2017
Location: USA
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#19
Hope you're sitting in prison right now, for countless years to come. Enjoy!
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Member Since Sep 2018
Location: New York
Posts: 102
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#20
DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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