Sod off you piece of **** What do you want to say to your abuser

You make me sick. Look at yourself and YOUR sickness for once. Stop your sick sick games. Get a grip and stop harming good people

(Not about anyone on pc)

What do you want to say to your abuser?

It's tough to come up with something, but I am going to go with:

I wish you had been sorry for what you did.

I wish you'd realized how much your issues caused pain in your immediate family.

I wish I had said that to my abuser.

I wish I had said that to my abuser those in my family

I wish you realized how much you hurt me by what you said in the end. That was vicious and cruel beyond belief -- do you have any idea what that did to me? Who says that kind of thing except someone who is a total and complete monster? Only a monster would treat someone that way.... you are the spawn of the devil himself and I want nothing more to do with you, you scumbag A-hole. You never even deserved someone like me. I gave you everything, and that's how I get treated? How dare you treat me that way, after ALL I did for you.

I want to say

I want to say that to poor furbaby Ebony's abuser as well

I don't really have anything to say so much as things I want to do. I'd like to cut off his hands. So he knows he can't put them just anywhere he wants. I think that says way more than I ever can with words.

Because in truth, I am that monster.
We are an awkward little system that obsesses over things. We are Sam, Beyond, Stacy, Kevin, Kitty, Shannon,Link, Peyita, Stephen, Nicole, Damon, Pumpkin, Illonor, Daran,LIly. Feel free to send random cute things.

That is so true!

I’ve never been one to mince words. I said what I wanted to say whether it be by letter or to their face, even said it with silence and simply moving on without words. It felt good to get it out and they had it comin’. Did they care? Did it get under their skin? Did it matter? Probably not. But it helped me heal. Unless they are dead, it’s never too late to give them a what for. Take it from the Americans, we’ve let the bar down as low as it goes!

I could send some of them a letter I guess. But I don’t think they are worth my time..



Although if I do turn into a polar bear I will eat that therapist . I would probably have indigestion for months

Fuzzy, you could write the letter and get your feelings out. But, honestly, I doubt they would understand. Have you read the book Toxic Parents? That might help.

"you hurt me terribly. i will try to forgive, even though ou don't deserve it"

I wish that I knew how to forgive

You are toxic. I hate your culture and your brainwashing. I hate how stupid you are and not changing. I hate how you never listen to me and blame me.
I hate how difficult you are. I hate your evil religion.

I wish that I could tell my sister friend and my niece boyfriend you need to leave and stay out of my life!

I’m having a hard time figuring out which abuser to pick... I’ll go with the first I guess:
You destroyed me! You ripped my innocence and childhood from me. You showed me that monsters are real they just look like everyone else...You stole my smile, my happiness, my belief in good, my virginity, and you almost stole my ability to have children (God blesses me there). How could you look at my little face, so trusting at 5yrs old and decide to expose me to sex and violence. You took my family’s trust in you and destroyed my mind, body, and soul with it. My mother believed you would keep me safe and protect me til she came home. It took me 2 yrs to finally tell her and she still blames herself.
All in all I don’t hate you... I feel nothing for you and I’ve learned with therapy and self reflection to in a way be grateful for the pain because it made me who I am. I’m strong, I’m tough, I’m not afraid of anyone, I’m also empathetic, compassionate, and considerate of others. I believe that all the pain, loss, neglect, abuse, and abandonment I’ve experienced in my life is so I can help others and use my pain to heal someone else’s.
Sorry didn’t mean to monologue lol.

I was there for you when you need someone and your so call controlling friend was no where near to be found.

I have listened to you say the worst things imaginable to me. I have taken your punches and your threats. I have worked my *** off at two sometimes three jobs. I have tried my best to shield our five amazing children from your horrendous outbursts. I have even completed my masters degree so I can hopefully one day earn your respect. All you have ever done is spit in my face. You talk about your internal battles but you wage war in our home. You prey on every weakness you can find of mine and when I refuse to fall into self pity you attack the people I love. You are so hateful and mental ill that you describe in detail the horrible torture and hell you wish on me including my own death. Then for a few days you become a night in shinning armor, and nurse my wounds with your "undying love", just so that you can ensure pain when pull that band-aid back off with twice the aggression. I want to look at you and feel nothing but hate, I want to rid myself of hope for our marriage and throw out all fear that you have instilled in me. I want to leave you, I want to feel no pity as I walk away with our children and live a happy, love filled life. You will likely destroy me, you will continue to drag me to my knees. When the two oldest graduate you will start hitting me more, just like you use to do. You will never change for the better you will only get worse. You will NEVER understand or feel full remorse for the pain you have and will cause. You are a horrible man and no matter who you try to impress, your family knows you are no better the evil we all suffer through.

How could you say that to someone who has always been there for you and took care of you even though you were always jealous of the attention you no longer had and teach your children to become bullies?