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#1
Apr 18, 2019, 05:49 PM
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Due to incest and abuse my childhood, adolescence and early adulthood were stolen from me!
Trying to "recover" from all that has consumed the past 25 or so years of my life! Now because of arthritis and chronic pain my supposed "golden years" are being taken away from me too! Some EFFING Life This Has Been! If there is a God, the SOB had better have a damn good explanation ready!   
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 Abusedbysister, Amyjay, Anonymous44076, Astreja, Fuzzybear, KD1980, Mopey, mountainstream, OCD1972, Open Eyes, unaluna
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#2
Apr 18, 2019, 07:25 PM
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I'm sorry you have had so much difficulty throughout your life.
 I don't think I will be encountering God when I go. I don't personally believe there even is such a thing. But, should it turn out there is, I expect I'll be going the other direction... 
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
| Anonymous41006, Anonymous44076, Fuzzybear, mountainstream
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#3
Apr 18, 2019, 07:26 PM
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I'm sorry Pfrog. Wish I could say something comforting.
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| Anonymous41006, Anonymous44076, Fuzzybear, mountainstream
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#4
Apr 18, 2019, 09:24 PM
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(((((((( Pfrog ))))))))
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| Anonymous41006, mountainstream
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Apr 19, 2019, 12:37 PM
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Appreciate the replies, y'all ... Just knowing there are people that hear and care means a lot to me!
I am feeling right sorry for myself right now and that toxic inner-critic (female parental unit / primary abuser) is having a heyday with it by telling me what an ungrateful whelp I am! It seems that no matter how hard I try to erase those old messages they still pop up when needed least! I hate that EFFING B and all she did to wreck and torment a defenseless kid!
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| Anonymous44076, Fuzzybear, mountainstream, unaluna
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#6
Apr 19, 2019, 01:30 PM
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Anger is good.
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| Anonymous41006, Anonymous44076, Fuzzybear
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#7
Apr 19, 2019, 04:23 PM
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Hugs ... anger is ok
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| Anonymous41006
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#8
Apr 19, 2019, 04:33 PM
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You thanked everyone for their replies, Pfrog. That does NOT sound like an "ungrateful whelp" to me!
I am sorry you experienced abuse. It was not your fault. Nor was it a reflection of who you are. I wish you peace and hope. Here's a safe 
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| Anonymous41006, KD1980
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Apr 19, 2019, 05:31 PM
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Hugs.
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| Anonymous41006, Fuzzybear
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#10
Apr 19, 2019, 05:54 PM
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You tell ‘em, Pfrog. No one could have said it better. I’m just sorry your life has contained so much pain and injustice.
My husband always says that wherever he ends up after all the loveliness here, he hopes they have a Complaint Department. 👿 |
| Anonymous41006, Fuzzybear
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#11
Apr 29, 2019, 11:58 AM
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I am sorry, Pfrog. I also had my childhood ruined. We deserve better. It's okay to be angry. What you went through would make anyone angry.
I recommend doing a lot of self care, be gentle with yourself, and remember that you don't deserve any of it.
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| Anonymous41006
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#12
Apr 29, 2019, 02:58 PM
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Quote:
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| Anonymous41006, Mopey
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#13
May 04, 2019, 11:29 AM
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[That is gonna be a longer line than any at disneyland!]
Can you imagine the $$ from the concession stands? 
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| Anonymous41006, unaluna
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| unaluna
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May 04, 2019, 03:41 PM
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I am sorry about the difficulties in your life. I can relate to that as I think my childhood and adolescence was stolen due to my abusive sister. Wish you the best!
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| Anonymous41006, unaluna
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May 06, 2019, 02:24 AM
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You really summed up how I feel. My mother too was very abusive. I spent years in therapy, have tried lots of psych meds which are the only reason I can half way cope. I was struck with severe OCD at age 13 which really caused me to fall apart. I'm old before my time with arthritis. This is not the life I've would've chosen but I've done the best I could with it. I find solace in my small circle of friends and my 2 cats. I hope there are things in your life that give you solace too. All my best to you.
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| Anonymous41006, KD1980, Mopey, unaluna
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