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Default Jun 04, 2019 at 02:20 PM
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@Pfrog, don't you agree from your experience that bad abusers very seldom become repentant later in life, try to make amends, try to apologize? That many people with abusive behaviour, bullies, manipulators, narcissists etc. maintain into their old age that all they did was right? And that that can be extra painful for the victim?

Just a question, because that's my experience.
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@Pfrog, don't you agree from your experience that bad abusers very seldom become repentant later in life, try to make amends, try to apologize? That many people with abusive behaviour, bullies, manipulators, narcissists etc. maintain into their old age that all they did was right? And that that can be extra painful for the victim?

Just a question, because that's my experience.
Absolutely, Poiuytl ... Absolutely!

I also think it's possible that some bullies and abusers do come to realize the things they've done are wrong and are actually truly sorry for the harm it's caused.

It doesn't undo the past, but it is nice to know they are at least trying to be a better human being in the here and now.

I think this may be where that thing about grace comes in, but I struggle with believing in all that because my abusers completely wiped all that out for me.
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