[kittykatheartlove]

I'm kinda freaking out right now! I had an extremely realistic, very vivid nightmare 2 nights ago. My ex C was in it, not doing anything, just starting at me with his cold eyes. My brain has basically hidden the 5 years we were together, they were so traumatic. After our break up I found psych notes with the diagnosis' of Anti-social personality disorder, Schizoaffective disorder, co-occuring substance abuse disorder. It's a long story. Anyway, guess who sent me a message on fb this morning?!?! It doesn't show his message because he's not a be friend, so if I open it, it will give me option to accept or decline the message. Idk what to do.

[Open Eyes]

Don't open the message, just delete it. Toxic people can only get in if you let them, do not let them in!!

[TishaBuv]

Sometimes it feels like Beatlejuice. If you say their name three times, they appear. Don’t open the message or respond.

[kittykatheartlove]

Originally Posted by TishaBuv

Sometimes it feels like Beatlejuice. If you say their name three times, they appear. Don’t open the message or respond.

I think it's more like Candyman.

[leomama]

Yes I can relate. I found similar psych notes prior to breaking up with my ex fiancé a second time. I found a couple of phone messages from him in my mailbox from thanksgiving so I called him. He of course will not answer forcing me to text.

So is that what you want to go through again?

[divine1966]

Delete the message without opening it. Safety first. He isn’t a safe person to read messages from

[ShaneG]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Delete the message without opening it. Safety first. He isn’t a safe person to read messages from

In the long run, this is the answer, just avoid these people like youtube groomers.

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by kittykatheartlove

I'm kinda freaking out right now! I had an extremely realistic, very vivid nightmare 2 nights ago. My ex C was in it, not doing anything, just starting at me with his cold eyes. My brain has basically hidden the 5 years we were together, they were so traumatic. After our break up I found psych notes with the diagnosis' of Anti-social personality disorder, Schizoaffective disorder, co-occuring substance abuse disorder. It's a long story. Anyway, guess who sent me a message on fb this morning?!?! It doesn't show his message because he's not a be friend, so if I open it, it will give me option to accept or decline the message. Idk what to do.

im sorry that you had to experience that. ignore it.