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Default Mar 03, 2021 at 11:03 AM
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I'm kinda freaking out right now! I had an extremely realistic, very vivid nightmare 2 nights ago. My ex C was in it, not doing anything, just starting at me with his cold eyes. My brain has basically hidden the 5 years we were together, they were so traumatic. After our break up I found psych notes with the diagnosis' of Anti-social personality disorder, Schizoaffective disorder, co-occuring substance abuse disorder. It's a long story. Anyway, guess who sent me a message on fb this morning?!?! It doesn't show his message because he's not a be friend, so if I open it, it will give me option to accept or decline the message. Idk what to do.
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Default Mar 03, 2021 at 11:15 AM
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Don't open the message, just delete it. Toxic people can only get in if you let them, do not let them in!!
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Sometimes it feels like Beatlejuice. If you say their name three times, they appear. Don’t open the message or respond.

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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 10:06 AM
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Sometimes it feels like Beatlejuice. If you say their name three times, they appear. Don’t open the message or respond.
I think it's more like Candyman. Nightmare Premonition
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Default Mar 05, 2021 at 11:37 PM
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Yes I can relate. I found similar psych notes prior to breaking up with my ex fiancé a second time. I found a couple of phone messages from him in my mailbox from thanksgiving so I called him. He of course will not answer forcing me to text.

So is that what you want to go through again?
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Delete the message without opening it. Safety first. He isn’t a safe person to read messages from
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Default Mar 07, 2021 at 04:23 PM
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Delete the message without opening it. Safety first. He isn’t a safe person to read messages from
In the long run, this is the answer, just avoid these people like youtube groomers.
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Default Mar 08, 2021 at 11:45 AM
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I'm kinda freaking out right now! I had an extremely realistic, very vivid nightmare 2 nights ago. My ex C was in it, not doing anything, just starting at me with his cold eyes. My brain has basically hidden the 5 years we were together, they were so traumatic. After our break up I found psych notes with the diagnosis' of Anti-social personality disorder, Schizoaffective disorder, co-occuring substance abuse disorder. It's a long story. Anyway, guess who sent me a message on fb this morning?!?! It doesn't show his message because he's not a be friend, so if I open it, it will give me option to accept or decline the message. Idk what to do.
im sorry that you had to experience that. ignore it.
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