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Trig Jun 04, 2021 at 05:52 PM
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I'm just so sick of this, I want to smash dishes in frustratrion.

The narcissist in my family is so filthy and self important that they refuse to clean their own room even though mice are breeding in their piles of garbage and dirty laundry. The fact thst mice walk on their headboard when they are in bed and chew their belongings and electric cords isn't enough to motivate them to clean their room. Every time I try to get them to gather up their piles of trash, they say they have more important things to do.

Now the mice have spread to the rest of the house and I have to put aside my own work to clean areas that everyone uses. If mice walk on our dishes or toothbrushes, the narcissist just complains and keeps using those things without sanitizing them.

No matter how many mice I kill, more come out because they are raising families in the narcissist's bedroom. There are 4ft high piles of trash around the walls and in the closet and lots of old food lost in there so no matter mow kany mice I kill, they breed faster than I can set traps.

It's just disgusting and horrible. This person is so selfish and worse than an animal. I have to put my life on hold to clean the same things over and over because using dishes that have mouse poop is simply not an option. Yesterday I finally resigned myself to pick up her mountain of used sanitary napkins and you wouldn't believe how bad it smelled. They ahd been piling up for about 4 months and stayed moist because of the plastic wrappers. It makes me seem like a bad person to reveal such things about my family members but just imagine how gross it is to live like this and to clean constantly but never have a clean place to live.

Since I have to clean up after somone whose filthiness must be a mental illness, I can't work as much I need to and she uses the fact thst she earns more money to out me down. During the pandemic and the financial crisis, she was emptying my bank account and threatening to leave me to starve if I tried to get her to oick up after herself. I wish I was rid of this plague in human form. It's just so disgusting.
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I'm just so sick of this, I want to smash dishes in frustratrion.

The narcissist in my family is so filthy and self important that they refuse to clean their own room even though mice are breeding in their piles of garbage and dirty laundry. The fact thst mice walk on their headboard when they are in bed and chew their belongings and electric cords isn't enough to motivate them to clean their room. Every time I try to get them to gather up their piles of trash, they say they have more important things to do.

Now the mice have spread to the rest of the house and I have to put aside my own work to clean areas that everyone uses. If mice walk on our dishes or toothbrushes, the narcissist just complains and keeps using those things without sanitizing them.

No matter how many mice I kill, more come out because they are raising families in the narcissist's bedroom. There are 4ft high piles of trash around the walls and in the closet and lots of old food lost in there so no matter mow kany mice I kill, they breed faster than I can set traps.

It's just disgusting and horrible. This person is so selfish and worse than an animal. I have to put my life on hold to clean the same things over and over because using dishes that have mouse poop is simply not an option. Yesterday I finally resigned myself to pick up her mountain of used sanitary napkins and you wouldn't believe how bad it smelled. They ahd been piling up for about 4 months and stayed moist because of the plastic wrappers. It makes me seem like a bad person to reveal such things about my family members but just imagine how gross it is to live like this and to clean constantly but never have a clean place to live.

Since I have to clean up after somone whose filthiness must be a mental illness, I can't work as much I need to and she uses the fact thst she earns more money to out me down. During the pandemic and the financial crisis, she was emptying my bank account and threatening to leave me to starve if I tried to get her to oick up after herself. I wish I was rid of this plague in human form. It's just so disgusting.
I’m sorry that you had to go through that. Have you thought about reporting this person?
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