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Location: Pennsylvania
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When I was younger I experience sexual, verbal, emotional, physical abuse. To this day I still have such a hard time in all these area. I'm curious if anyone else has the issue of being with their husband/partner due to sexual abuse. Most times I don't want to be with him sexually, I'd prefer not to with him or anyone for that matter. A lot of time I don't even want him to hug me or touch me in any way. Most times I just give in and let him do his thing but then I have to drink heavily to get it out of my head. Anyone else go through this or am I over reacting?
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Abusedbysister, Anonymous32448, Truth22, Yaowen
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I used to go through something similar all the time, but now I am basically all alone and so that is one less burden for me. I remember those times though. My memories are vivid and painful. Those were heavy burdens to carry although being alone is also a burden. My heart goes to you! People who do not go through similar experiences seem unable to empathize at any kind of deep level. Since they only see things from the outside, having never experienced them, it is almost as though they are blind to the distress that one suffers.
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Thank you Yaowen and I'm sorry you have dealt with this too. It's so hard and yes people don't get it and think we can just get up and move on. I wish it was that simple.
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*Beth*, Abusedbysister
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For me, my abuse has turned into a form of hyper sexuality and I have developed certain fetishes that are directly the result of abuse. In some people, the abuse turns into avoidance and in some, they find relief from fetishes thar are developed because of abuse.
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I became promiscuous and hyper-sexual as the result of abuse.
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