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Has anyone here been photographed or recorded by your partner against your will during sexual acts?
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my suggestion is check with your areas police department they can tell you if its a crime in your state. you dont even have to tell them whether or not anything happened. When it happened to me, I called the police and told them I was doing a term paper for a class and needed some information. After I was told the laws then I made my decision to press charges. |
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__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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I'm sorry, I completely forgot that I had posted this.
No, it wouldn't have occurred to me to press charges. It happened some years ago in a relationship I was in for a number of years. I hated that he did it and I knew he was showing the photographs and recordings to people. I'm sure he still has them. I thought that as long as I wasn't really insistent, which would have caused a big argument, there was nothing illegal about what he did. But I absolutely hated it, it disgusted me, and he knew it. I saw it in a movie a few weeks ago (based on a true story), the woman did eventually press charges and won the case. No way am I looking to do anything legal, but seeing that movie gave me a wake-up call...validation. __________________ Last edited by *Beth*; Jul 03, 2022 at 11:46 PM.. |
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