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Old Feb 10, 2023 at 06:49 PM
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Last night my niece begin hitting me, yelling at me, shoving me, calling me horrible name then afterwards her boyfriend began yelling at me, cussing me out, threatening me, controlling everything that I do and one of my sister began getting emotionally abusive towards me. I woke up covered in bruises today.

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Old Feb 10, 2023 at 08:31 PM
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Oh, dear Buffy, I'm so sorry!

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Old Feb 11, 2023 at 09:45 AM
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Oh Dear, I'm really sorry too Buffy. Very very saddening. I hope you're going okay.

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Old Feb 11, 2023 at 11:42 AM
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Oh, dear Buffy, I'm so sorry!
I should have called the police.

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Old Feb 11, 2023 at 11:45 AM
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Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.
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Old Feb 12, 2023 at 02:30 PM
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Hi Buffy, sorry to hear that. If you donít live in the same house, can you stop seeing them? Kids generally take after their parents and if they see your sister rude to you, they may follow that. I know that because my sister treats me like a servant when I am around them and the niece and nephew who are teenagers now have picked this up and order me around and bully me. I am so scared of my sister that I follow their orders. It is embarrassing and humiliating but it is true. I donít live in the same city so the encounters are just Christmas season and Easter and will cut them off after my parents are gone.
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Old Feb 12, 2023 at 02:38 PM
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Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.
Unfortunately I do.

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Old Feb 13, 2023 at 12:52 PM
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If you didn't report it already,you can tell them in clear terms that if it happens again, there will be consequences. I did that the first time someone slapped me across my face, in my adult life and it never happened again.
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If you didn't report it already,you can tell them in clear terms that if it happens again, there will be consequences. I did that the first time someone slapped me across my face, in my adult life and it never happened again.
I already told her and her boyfriend they will be arrested for assault and battery and harassment.

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Old Feb 13, 2023 at 02:42 PM
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You mentioned sharing a house with them.If they decide to escalate, you will be in a dangerous situation. Can you live somewhere else?Away from them?
I mean there is a possibility of physical harm even before the police arrives.
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Old Feb 15, 2023 at 02:05 PM
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You mentioned sharing a house with them.If they decide to escalate, you will be in a dangerous situation. Can you live somewhere else?Away from them?
I mean there is a possibility of physical harm even before the police arrives.
Iím currently looking for a place.

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Old Feb 15, 2023 at 02:08 PM
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Hi Buffy, sorry to hear that. If you donít live in the same house, can you stop seeing them? Kids generally take after their parents and if they see your sister rude to you, they may follow that. I know that because my sister treats me like a servant when I am around them and the niece and nephew who are teenagers now have picked this up and order me around and bully me. I am so scared of my sister that I follow their orders. It is embarrassing and humiliating but it is true. I donít live in the same city so the encounters are just Christmas season and Easter and will cut them off after my parents are gone. :hug::hug:
Iím currently looking for a place to relocate at where my niece and her boyfriend are not welcome to come to. She blamed me for the things that my sister did even though I am the one who stood up for her.

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Old May 21, 2023 at 07:35 PM
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Oh Dear, I'm really sorry too Buffy. Very very saddening. I hope you're going okay.
Iím going to be :hug okay.

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Old May 21, 2023 at 07:37 PM
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Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.
Not a bad idea. I told her next time the police will be called and I will press charges

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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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