I got into a physical fight with my niece and her boyfriend

Buffy01 · Feb 10, 2023 at 06:49 PM

Last night my niece begin hitting me, yelling at me, shoving me, calling me horrible name then afterwards her boyfriend began yelling at me, cussing me out, threatening me, controlling everything that I do and one of my sister began getting emotionally abusive towards me. I woke up covered in bruises today.

Breaking Dawn · Feb 10, 2023 at 08:31 PM

Oh, dear Buffy, I'm so sorry!

mote.of.soul · Feb 11, 2023 at 09:45 AM

Oh Dear, I'm really sorry too Buffy. Very very saddening. I hope you're going okay.

Buffy01 · Feb 11, 2023 at 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Breaking Dawn

Oh, dear Buffy, I'm so sorry!

I should have called the police.

divine1966 · Feb 11, 2023 at 11:45 AM

Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.

Abusedbysister · Feb 12, 2023 at 02:30 PM

Hi Buffy, sorry to hear that. If you don’t live in the same house, can you stop seeing them? Kids generally take after their parents and if they see your sister rude to you, they may follow that. I know that because my sister treats me like a servant when I am around them and the niece and nephew who are teenagers now have picked this up and order me around and bully me. I am so scared of my sister that I follow their orders. It is embarrassing and humiliating but it is true. I don’t live in the same city so the encounters are just Christmas season and Easter and will cut them off after my parents are gone.

Buffy01 · Feb 12, 2023 at 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.

Unfortunately I do.

Mendingmysoul · Feb 13, 2023 at 12:52 PM

If you didn't report it already,you can tell them in clear terms that if it happens again, there will be consequences. I did that the first time someone slapped me across my face, in my adult life and it never happened again.

Buffy01 · Feb 13, 2023 at 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul

If you didn't report it already,you can tell them in clear terms that if it happens again, there will be consequences. I did that the first time someone slapped me across my face, in my adult life and it never happened again.

I already told her and her boyfriend they will be arrested for assault and battery and harassment.

Mendingmysoul · Feb 13, 2023 at 02:42 PM

You mentioned sharing a house with them.If they decide to escalate, you will be in a dangerous situation. Can you live somewhere else?Away from them?
I mean there is a possibility of physical harm even before the police arrives.

Buffy01 · Feb 15, 2023 at 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul

You mentioned sharing a house with them.If they decide to escalate, you will be in a dangerous situation. Can you live somewhere else?Away from them?
I mean there is a possibility of physical harm even before the police arrives.

I’m currently looking for a place.

Buffy01 · Feb 15, 2023 at 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Abusedbysister

Hi Buffy, sorry to hear that. If you don’t live in the same house, can you stop seeing them? Kids generally take after their parents and if they see your sister rude to you, they may follow that. I know that because my sister treats me like a servant when I am around them and the niece and nephew who are teenagers now have picked this up and order me around and bully me. I am so scared of my sister that I follow their orders. It is embarrassing and humiliating but it is true. I don’t live in the same city so the encounters are just Christmas season and Easter and will cut them off after my parents are gone. :hug::hug:

I’m currently looking for a place to relocate at where my niece and her boyfriend are not welcome to come to. She blamed me for the things that my sister did even though I am the one who stood up for her.

Buffy01 · May 21, 2023 at 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by mote.of.soul

Oh Dear, I'm really sorry too Buffy. Very very saddening. I hope you're going okay.

I’m going to be :hug okay.

Buffy01 · May 21, 2023 at 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

Wow. It sounds terrible. Sorry to hear it. Do you all share a household?

You can (and likely should) still make a police report today and since you have bruises I recommend to take time stamped pictures of them.

Not a bad idea. I told her next time the police will be called and I will press charges

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Mendingmysoul Grand Member Mendingmysoul has no updates. Member Since: Aug 2019 Location: Here Posts: 905 807 hugs given	Feb 13, 2023 at 02:42 PM #10 You mentioned sharing a house with them.If they decide to escalate, you will be in a dangerous situation. Can you live somewhere else?Away from them? I mean there is a possibility of physical harm even before the police arrives.
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