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Junior Member
Member Since Oct 2023
Location: Gästrikland
Posts: 10
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Mar 04, 2024 at 05:57 PM
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I was mentally abused by someone who was both my partner and closest friend. Recently, I stopped missing them. But bad treatment from their side atill feels as bad as ever. It does not help that it is only getting worse and worse. Recently they have started to insult me, ridicule me for things as silly as not understanding some message they sent. All that while treating stranger girls that they just met with all the biggest respect, throwing compliments at them. In my case, they won't even compliment anymore, just insult and send bland apathetic responses when I do something well.
I do not understand why it is so hard to get detached, any tips? Also it is a purely online relation |
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Poohbah
Member Since Aug 2022
Location: The House
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Mar 06, 2024 at 06:39 PM
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So sorry to hear you are being mistreated.
Since it's online, why not block the person and go no contact? Also, 2 other suggestions: Read this blog: Baggage Reclaim Home - Baggage Reclaim with Natalie Lue I find it very helpful. Also, do some inner work on yourself to find out why you tolerated the abuse. You could start at Codependents Anonymous for your country or online meetings worldwide: CoDA.org |
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