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Jan 18, 2005, 05:01 PM
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Why is he bringing my children into this? It is our mess(me and husband) not theirs. They don't need this, don't need to be sad. He says it's all my fault that they are sad. He made my 2 daughters cried and he says it was my fault. Said if he didn't feel I want to go away that he would not feel so unhappy, so quick temper with the children. It's me who is making do this with my attitude.
Why? Why with the children? nightdream(crying) |
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Jan 18, 2005, 05:13 PM
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your children are the priority here. do whatever you need to do to protect them first, then later you can ask, why is he doing this.
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Jan 18, 2005, 05:48 PM
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((((((((((((((nightdream))))))))))))), I dont really know what to say to this, but I am sorry that you are suffering and now that your children are involved. I am sure it is not your fault tthat they have been upset and i think it is unfair that your husband is blaming it all on you. i hope things are easier for you soon.
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Jan 18, 2005, 08:15 PM
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Nightdream, You have been through really big changes lately. so brave. I realize I really don't know you. I assumed you were young because of the leaving the parents thing, now I see you have kids and it sounds like they are not your husbands? Life is so complicated! Hang in there sweetie.
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Jan 18, 2005, 08:32 PM
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No I am not young. I have live a long time and seen too much.
I been to hell and came back a lot of time. I was the caregiver of my mother for 15 years. The father of my 3 children is my husband. He is bringing our children into this so I will feel guilty and stay with him. You see I was working my way out of this mess and he felt it. He knows I adore my children, I should say our children so he is bringing them in the picture to chain me down. He knows he will succeed this way. Right now only my youngest daughter ,18, is still living with me. But the 2 others live close by. He is going to win. I'm sorry I shouldn't had brought this subjet up. Just ignore this post. Forget about it. Thank you so much to those who have replied. Stay safe! nightdream |
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Jan 18, 2005, 08:35 PM
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No I won't forget, I am sorry you are scared and hurt. Your youngest can be reasoned with and you have to care for yourself. You have to do what is right for you to be healthy.
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