[RozG]

...i can't take this crap no more. i spent years supporting abused kids but...i can't take my own pain no more...sorry....

please don't folks ask me to support them with rape chat or ritual abuse chat no more....i can't take it no more...hurts too much

[reddevil]

(((((((((((((((((((((Roz)))))))))))))))))))))

Don't ask it of yourself either. If it comes up, just quickly and quietly leave so that you don't get triggered.

[I_WMD]

Thank You for the Back up devil >>>

And Roz >> Great Post !! If this not plain enough that you need time >> I not know what is .

[silentandscared]

((((((((((((((((((((((ROZ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Take Care of you

[RozG]

(((((((((red)))))))))


i know but i feel for youngers and go where i shouldn't. i'm learning the hard way though not to trig myself. too long coming tho

[RozG]

i know ((((((wmd)))))) ty

[RozG]

((((((wmd)))))) i know but what am i supposed to do when others hurt from same thing?

[RozG]

((((((silent)))))) ty ok? you too k?

[nothemama8]

{{{{{{ Roz }}}}}} first thing first, you need to avoid the triggers, when you see the trig sign stay out, second, you must not feel you have to support if it's not possible, there is no shame in staying safe
Angie

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((( Roz )))))))))))))))

[xylia]

(((((((((((((((RozG))))))))))))))))))

Much love to you.

Take care of you.

(((((Roz)))))

[dalila]

<font color="green">Roz,
Have you ever flown commercially? They give a lecture at the beginning of every flight.

Part of it says that if the cabin loses pressure, oxygen masks will drop down. Adults are instructed to put their own mask on first then aid their children or others.

Why do they insist on this? Why wouldn't they say put on your child's mask then yours? Because you could pass out. If you should pass out who will help your child? Who will be there to help your child once the immediate emergency is over?

Roz, you are putting your own mask on so that you can heal and become stronger. Someday you will be stronger. In the meantime let the ones who are strong reach out and you keep yourself safe and healing.

Hugs</font>

[Wabby]

Look after yourself first and for most! You can't help anyone else if you're not healthy yourself!

Take care.

[multipixie9]

((((((((((((Roz))))))))))

It is OK to take care of yourself. When you are healed THEN you can come and support the youngers. You can't give what you don't have or what you need to survive by!

Take care of Yourself Roz. When I get concerned for others and can't help, then I ask God to help them - the good God I worship who loves and helps children of all ages and stages!!!!!

Big Hugs,

leslieann and the pixies

[I_WMD]

Pixie ?? Not to be unsupportive >> But Most peeps I see use words as pertaining to the good god >> They use a word ,, like praise ,, >> And you use the word " worship " >>

I see S R A >>>.... Please tell me I off tract >.

[thelostone]

((((((((((roz))))))))))

there is no shame in taking care of yourself first. you have helped so many people, and there are still ways you can help and support without hurting you. walk away from those things that hurt you. you will be better able to care for yourself, and more able to maybe heal so that you can be support to others in the future.

for now, take good care of you.

lost

[RozG]

Originally Posted by nothemama8

{{{{{{ Roz }}}}}} first thing first, you need to avoid the triggers, when you see the trig sign stay out, second, you must not feel you have to support if it's not possible, there is no shame in staying safe
Angie

((((((Angie)))))) ty

[RozG]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

((((((((((((( Roz )))))))))))))))

((((((((fuzzy))))))))

[RozG]

((((((xylia)))))) ty, much love to you too

[RozG]

((((((roseleigh)))))) ty and you please take care of you too.

[RozG]

Originally Posted by dalila

<font color="green">Roz,
Have you ever flown commercially? They give a lecture at the beginning of every flight.

Part of it says that if the cabin loses pressure, oxygen masks will drop down. Adults are instructed to put their own mask on first then aid their children or others.

Why do they insist on this? Why wouldn't they say put on your child's mask then yours? Because you could pass out. If you should pass out who will help your child? Who will be there to help your child once the immediate emergency is over?

Roz, you are putting your own mask on so that you can heal and become stronger. Someday you will be stronger. In the meantime let the ones who are strong reach out and you keep yourself safe and healing.

Hugs</font>

((((((dalila)))))) thank you for this, i never thought of it this way before.

[RozG]

Originally Posted by Wabby

Look after yourself first and for most! You can't help anyone else if you're not healthy yourself!

Take care.

((((Wabby)))) ty and you please take care of you also.

[RozG]

((pixie)) ty for support..i dont like god talk but do MUCH appreciate yout personal support ty.

[RozG]

Originally Posted by thelostone

((((((((((roz))))))))))

there is no shame in taking care of yourself first. you have helped so many people, and there are still ways you can help and support without hurting you. walk away from those things that hurt you. you will be better able to care for yourself, and more able to maybe heal so that you can be support to others in the future.

for now, take good care of you.

lost

((((((lost)))))) ty for this advice, i have much to learn on this front....to learn how to help others without triggering myself...so ty adain.