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Old Sep 07, 2008, 10:43 PM
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Sibling rivalry and...
Sibling abuse?

It's just waaay too blurry for me
I have memories
Of my brother hurting me
REALLY hurting me
but at the same time
Everyone thinks it's normal
If it's so normal then why can't I get over it?
And despite how mean and disrespectful he can be, I know my brother still loves me greatly, we still have our moments of kindness and bonding... which makes me even more confussed at times.

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Old Sep 07, 2008, 11:07 PM
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I wish... that I knew.. that answer to this...

my sister.. was very mean to me... and hurt me.... and...no she didn't love me...

my T... called...mine... what it was... a sister who was also damaged.. to the point that she couldn't be "normal".. loving....and that it wasn't sibling rivility....
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Old Sep 08, 2008, 08:40 AM
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that is a very hard one to answer. one of my sisters hurt me, but as we got older i realized that she also loved me. and when i look back she always loved me, and it was just sibling rivalry, she was the baby for a long time, then i came along and took that from her.

have you discussed with your T how your relationship is with your brother? T may be able to help you distinguish.

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Old Sep 08, 2008, 01:01 PM
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Kaika, if it affected you, it affected you. It doesn't matter what it was called or how anyone else feels about it.
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