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Oct 11, 2008, 11:32 AM
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a second time in my life.... I have had a short relationship with this man.. he is a highly volitle.. person... and.. my T is very concerned as I am about my safety... and how to end this relationship.. and keep me.. still here..... this person.. also has a lifetime of revenge for women.. that he would like to release.. and is depressed.. a bad.. bad.. combo... for me...because.. with this on his mind.. many things could happen..
I have to say I am scared.. I have always said... the worse has already happened in my life.. so nothing could sacre me again.. well loaded guns do scare me... they just really do. |
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Oct 11, 2008, 11:50 AM
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 ((((((freewill)))))))
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Oct 12, 2008, 11:20 PM
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You do not owe this guy anything. And you know how relationships with people like this affect you. He's not going to help you. Repeating situations for real doesn't help you process earlier ones. The sooner you get away from him the better it will be. You can do it. You have before.
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“We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impression to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of.” – John H. Groberg 
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Oct 12, 2008, 11:50 PM
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freewill i agree with rapunzel and your t... take care of yourself... please be safe... guns scare me too... lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Oct 13, 2008, 11:00 AM
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Guns scare me, too. It sounds like you have every reason to be afraid. If he is that volatile, I would be afraid. Can you leave while he is away at work or something? Do you have someone you can stay with for a while?
Please take care of you because you are important! BJ
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Oct 15, 2008, 06:26 PM
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(((((freewill))))
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#7
Oct 16, 2008, 05:52 AM
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 Hey Freewill, my mom stayed in an abusive relationship for many yrs. I say run. Maybe you could go to an abuse center, they will hide you. Be safe,
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Oct 18, 2008, 06:21 AM
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I was in an abusive marriage for 20 years. You deserve better and so do I. He also had guns. Get out you won't realize how afraid you are until you leave. You cannot have emotions in an unsafe atmosphere. Leave
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