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Jan 14, 2005, 12:08 PM
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Hi guys,
Just to say that I want some advice on how not to clam up with my partner when we get intimate and wondering if anybody has any tips??? It's 3 years since my rape and I love my partner dearly and trust him 110%. He's helped me so much so does understand what I'm going through.... yet when we make love I clam up sometimes even just in foreplay but we've NEVER managed to fully make love or enjoy it. If I do get past the foreplay stage, then I usually end up panicking during the big event and need to stop - which of course he understands but it can be sooo frustrating for both of us and akward..... any tips???? please any will do I am desperate! |
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Jan 14, 2005, 12:55 PM
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Are you getting help? This type of experience can use the support of your love ones but also some t.
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Jan 14, 2005, 03:43 PM
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this was posted in general
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Jan 15, 2005, 06:20 AM
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Actually it wasn't posted in general it was posted in relationships.... didn't know I was only allowed to post in one group sorry
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Jan 15, 2005, 12:22 PM
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Hey I wish that I had some advice for you! The only thing I can say is to see a therapist. There are some who specialize in this sort of thing and they can help. If I knew anything beyond that, I would love to help you!
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Jan 15, 2005, 12:24 PM
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P.S. I think it's ok to post it in more than one place
 Sometimes you can reach two different groups of people that way and get more input
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Jan 16, 2005, 11:29 AM
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Thanks crusader, I'm not used to these kinda places so thought I had broke some kind of rule - I easily blame myself for things you know!!! Anyway thanks for reassuring me
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