[loopy_lou1983]

ok i now how bad this is going to sound but i cant ****in take it anymore!!!!
my mother and i are at war and i swear if she doesnt get me first i will kill her.
im sick and tired of being on the recieving end of her mood swings her anger and her derogatory comments about me and about my mothering skills. who the HELL does she think she is?????? she is "fed up with this ****, fed up with HER gob" well im ****ing fed up having someone for a mother who hasnt ever done anything to be called a MOTHER she hurt me. she beat me she stabbed me she hit my head off walls, off my bunk beds, she threw me across the room because i used to say "toat" instead of coat when i was younger, she had multiple partners each as bad as the first and didnt care what effect it had on any of us..the beatings...the drinking.. she told everyone in my family i was a liar because she cant face the truth.. i WAS abused sexually, physically and mentally and it is HER fault. she is MY mother she is SUPPOSED to protect me... instead she added to it and worse excused the beatings from my step fathers because i deserve them#
and IM the BAD mother??????????????????????? holy **** what the **** planet are you ****ing living on???????????????? i protect MY daughter i feed her i bath her i comfort her i play with her i do it all WITHOUT a father for her but I DO IT. and she STILL interferes and takes over. she is MY DAUGHTER and YOU are NOT ****ing her up like you did me.
oh my god i am so losing the plot!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Loopy,

You mom sounds horrible! I wouldn't even bother listening to what she has to say, can you keep away from her, she seems like a poisonous person to be around.

I have a horrible mother too, and I remember when my kids where young, she said me and my husband was spoiling them because we didn't spank them. She said she was going to take my kids away from me because they are spoiled. Well getting away from her was the best thing I could have done, I certainly wasn't going to allow her to abuse my kids like she did with me and my brother. I have had no contact with her for over 8 years, and never will.

Whatever you do don't kill her because then your child will be punished because of her. I would try to keep away from her because your child need you, and your mother is only succeeding at getting on your nerves.

[Sannah]

Loopy I am so sorry that you had to experience that and still do suffer from her. Please let us support you. You certainly could use some care and we can give it to you here....