am i brave

i never really say much because it feels unsafe and it feels like people will hurt me but i am here today posting

do you think that's good

bethany

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by shattered sanity

am i brave

i never really say much because it feels unsafe and it feels like people will hurt me but i am here today posting

do you think that's good

bethany

Hi licia. sometimes I worry about whether or not I am brave or should say or do something but then I remember something, someone special told me....

it doesnt matter what other people think, it it matters to you then it matters.

the point if you feel brave then you are, if you think something is good then it is. if you feel people are going to hurt you but you are posting anyway thats just how you are.

no one else can say you are something or not something and something you do it good or bad. only you can decide that.

I can give you my .....opinion.... based on what it would be like in me if I felt the way you do. but I cant tell you how you are and whether something feels brave and good in you.

if I was afraid and posted anyway I would feel scared but I would also feel that I am being brave. if posting even though I was scared made me feel better then it would be good for me. If I posted even though I was scared and it made me feel more scared then I would think no that wasnt good for me.

the good part about psych central is if you post and it makes you feel bad you can message a moderator and they can help you remove your post so that you dont feel bad any more.

only you can say how you are feeling inside. we cant say whether you are feeling brave and good.

[Already Gone]

Your Brave

According to the amount of posts you are a "Super Poster"

I just started so you are Braver than me!

Originally Posted by Already Gone

Your Brave

According to the amount of posts you are a "Super Poster"

I just started so you are Braver than me!

we've been here since 2012, so a very long time

good site. hope you like it too and it helps

Originally Posted by amandalouise

Hi licia. sometimes I worry about whether or not I am brave or should say or do something but then I remember something, someone special told me....

it doesnt matter what other people think, it it matters to you then it matters.

the point if you feel brave then you are, if you think something is good then it is. if you feel people are going to hurt you but you are posting anyway thats just how you are.

no one else can say you are something or not something and something you do it good or bad. only you can decide that.

I can give you my .....opinion.... based on what it would be like in me if I felt the way you do. but I cant tell you how you are and whether something feels brave and good in you.

if I was afraid and posted anyway I would feel scared but I would also feel that I am being brave. if posting even though I was scared made me feel better then it would be good for me. If I posted even though I was scared and it made me feel more scared then I would think no that wasnt good for me.

the good part about psych central is if you post and it makes you feel bad you can message a moderator and they can help you remove your post so that you dont feel bad any more.

only you can say how you are feeling inside. we cant say whether you are feeling brave and good.

(((((hugs))))

this is great advice we will remember.

next time one of us want to post something, we'll think about what you said- if it's important to us, we can post it

[YoucancallmeFlower]

I think you are wonderfully brave! You made my heart smile.