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Old Apr 21, 2009, 11:31 AM
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We are home alone and little Manda is very scared.
I don't remember the last time she was this triggered.
And I don't know why she is so triggered. I mean, it's
not like we have never been at the house by ourselves
before, but she is crying, clinging to Pooh cuddly,
and begging me to call my husband and ask him to
come home (he's at work).

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 11:36 AM
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Little Manda sorry you are scared little one
We will sit with you

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 11:39 AM
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i.. i.. i.. i... i wan the hubby!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 11:46 AM
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I know but he will be back soon , Would you like to play some games on line for you to do while you wait for the hubby ?

http://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/fun/

These are good fun and safe for little ones to play with .
Hug your pooh bear too as you play them

am here with you little Manda

Willow
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 11:52 AM
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I know but he will be back soon would you like to play some games on line for you to do while you wait for the hubby ?

http://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/fun/

these are good fun and safe for little ones to play with
hug you pooh bear too as you play them

am here with you little manda

Willow
thak u wilow
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 12:02 PM
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a bug!!!!!
hear a bug flying around!!!!!
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 12:13 PM
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can one of the adults try and catch the bug and put it outside ?
am sorry that it is making you feel scared


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Old Apr 21, 2009, 12:45 PM
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it fly around window
Big manda too short to rech it
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 12:53 PM
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Aww , am sorry that big manda cant reach it.
I know it is scary , but it wont hurt you, all it wants to do is be outside with its friends.

Am still here with you


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Old Apr 21, 2009, 12:56 PM
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there is a doggie here, but iyt wont stay downstars wit me.
His rom is upstairs so he stays up there when nobody home
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 01:05 PM
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Can you call on the dog , will he come to you ?
Can you ask him to stay or dose the dog go back to its room ?

When dose the hubby get back ? and can you call him ?

Am still here with you

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 01:09 PM
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tried calling dog... came and went right back to rom

don't know when hubby wil get home. just called he sad cant talk
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 01:25 PM
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We can keep talking here or you can play some of the games i gave you

Do you have Pooh bear with you still? , Give him a big hug

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 02:19 PM
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Pooh still with me...
siister in law home now have to be quiet but maybe we can still talk?
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 02:42 PM
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wher u go wilow?
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 02:48 PM
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its ok am back here .
Are you ok ? I was in for a little while so Ella could come out . But am back again

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 02:49 PM
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who ella?
i still scareed
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 02:58 PM
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Ella is our host she the one who is out most of the time.

Am sorry you are still scared

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 03:10 PM
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I really don't know why little Manda has been triggered so much lately.
She has been coming a lot lately. And she has been out for like 24 hours
straight now (well she came out around 5:00pm last night... it's 4:10 now)
She never stays out this long!!! But I decided I'm not gonna push her.
(As much as I can) I am gonna let her do what she is gonna do... stay out
as long as she wants/needs to.

Do you think that is a good idea?
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 03:14 PM
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Hi Manda...

I'm here sitting with you too!! Do you have any color books you can color in? Maybe find some safe cartoons or movies to watch.

We will be here if you need to talk...K.

I know it's scary being alone. Hubby will be home when he is done with work. He has to work so he can pay the adult bills and pay for your house and food and stuff. Big Manda knows all about this, but Little Manda probably doesn't. That's okay. You can talk with us and you will be safe...

(((((BIG HUGS))))) for you if you would like them!!
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 03:17 PM
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we r not alone ne-mor... sis-in-law is hom from skol... but that mean i hav to be quiet but i can type here
thanx for hugs
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Old Apr 21, 2009, 03:19 PM
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It is ok for her to be out . but remember that you need some out time too .
Try and find out what is triggering her and what is making her so scared.

Maybe it is attachment issues that hubby has gone to work ?

Give her things to do and show her that it is safe when hubby is away

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Old Apr 21, 2009, 04:24 PM
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everyone is home now except the person little manda wants. grr
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