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Old Feb 15, 2010, 05:35 PM
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im having a moment.
because its highly possible that im pregnant. i havent told my man, because it will scare him shitless. i dont think hes mature enough to provide support and thats what i need really.
but yes. i cant be pregnant, because im 17. its bad. what can i say, someone say something positive? :P
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Old Feb 15, 2010, 07:11 PM
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I believe that everything in life happens for a reason. My mom got pregnant with me when she was 17, and she was an amazing mother and we are very close and talk every single day.

I have a 7 month old, and it is my first child. I feel stronger and more sane than I ever have in my life because of having grown through my pregnancy and his birth, even though things are still hard.

Every person in this world brings something new and important into it. We all have a reason for existing, no matter how small our contributions seem to be.

But also, keep in mind that at your age, it's very common to be worried that you might be pregnant and not be. I'm pretty sure that I thought I was pregnant every month for several years.

There are also many families who are not blessed with being able to have a baby of their own, and they would be eternally grateful for the chance to give a baby a family and home and make that dream come true. There are options.

Don't forget to breathe. (((huggs)))
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Old Feb 15, 2010, 08:38 PM
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Even if you are not, remember you have choices. And remember "she done and got HERSELF pregnant" is not true. Hopefully he will in the very least, will be emotionally supportive. Keep us posted!
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Old Feb 15, 2010, 09:49 PM
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what are the reasons that make you think you are pregnant? Just a couple weeks ago I was absolutely convinced I was and I started giving myself symptoms! As soon as I took the test and it said negative all of them went away.
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Old Feb 16, 2010, 02:56 AM
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Pregnant or not you are who you are in the moment that counts... you can do it if you are and please do not sell your boyfriend short even if he acts like he wants to run at first - he is probably just scared.
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Old Feb 23, 2010, 12:17 AM
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