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View Poll Results: At what age did you start your period?
11-13 185 68.01%
11-13
185 68.01%
14-16 43 15.81%
14-16
43 15.81%
16-18 6 2.21%
16-18
6 2.21%
Other 38 13.97%
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Default Apr 18, 2011 at 07:42 PM
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I started when I was 13. Too bad my mom didn't explain the different types of pads and so I was using light day pads at school the next day and so had to keep running to the bathroom to put toilet paper in my pants. I was horrified.
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Default Apr 19, 2011 at 10:13 PM
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My cousin started when she was 7! 'Course she told me this when I was like 5 so I didn't understand that it was a bizarre age. It must have been so traumatic for her! As for me I started when I was 11.

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Default Apr 20, 2011 at 07:50 AM
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Googley - that's how I hid it from my parents was the old toilet paper trick. One day at school thought I started and, because I had hid it from my parents and, therefore, had no pads or tampons, I bled right through my jeans. (of course we were on a field trip and I couldn't run to the restroom).

eve - 7! That's crazy! Glad that wasn't me or I would have kept it a secret for a decade!
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Default Apr 20, 2011 at 03:14 PM
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God I feel so stupid... I can't remember! I think I was 14.

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Default Apr 22, 2011 at 12:00 AM
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I too was an unusually early starter. Just added to the issues I already had

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Default Apr 22, 2011 at 10:46 AM
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I started the day of my 13th birthday, my sister who is 8 years younger than me started when she was 12. I have a lot of problems with regularity though (even on birth control and taking the birth control properly)
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Default Apr 22, 2011 at 04:39 PM
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I was 12. Yup. I've had enough. ha ha
Still, better than shaving a beard. That seems like a bigger pain since it's every single day for most guys.

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Default Apr 22, 2011 at 10:46 PM
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^ better than that and erections.....yeesh
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Default Apr 23, 2011 at 06:48 AM
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I started when I was 10

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Default Apr 26, 2011 at 01:41 PM
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there has to be more people who started late like me .WOW i didn't know how early people started that's crazy
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Default Apr 30, 2011 at 11:09 AM
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Gee that must have been hard to keep it secret....How did you buy sanitary supplies?

My mom was mad at me when I told her I started.... anything that wasn't about HER was a reason to be angry.
I was 11. Hopefully everything Im about to say makes sense because I find it very difficult to talk about this sort of stuff or use certain words. Im so squeamish of intimacy. Anyway, after I told my mother I never talked about it with her, and she never bothered to buy me anything. At 11-12 years old its not really my job. So I ran out pretty quickly, and I was too scared to ask for anything on top of her never making the effort to think, so I had to reuse things (just think about that for a moment), I would wash them in the shower. Or Id stuff a shirt or rolled up toilet paper down my pants. Sometimes when I had the chance Id sneak into her room to look for stuff. I used to smell so bad because of it, especially when having to reuse, I remember once at school the teacher was asking the class what smelt so bad and ended up opening the windows to air out the room. Only now do I realise how revolting that is.
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Default May 11, 2011 at 09:23 PM
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At 12 years old. Oh the horror!
I became mom's favorite topic of conversation infront of my sister. My sister and I had never had a compatible sibling relationship. She was always the bully. I don't know why mom did this to me. She knew fully well what was going on.
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Default May 11, 2011 at 09:30 PM
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I was 13 and my mum was sick with cancer.
After she passed away my "father" didn't buy me tampons or pads etc so I just used toilet paper until I didn't die of embarrassment when I could go into shops and buy my own which was about 18.
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Default May 12, 2011 at 10:24 AM
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So sorry you and so many of us had such awful starts into womanhood.....
You are all in my heart
why are some people so cruel to young ones?

about those of you that used toilet paper....
I forget that my situation is not of the average(VERY heavy periods), I'd be changing the TP every 30 minutes or my pants would be soaked the first 3 days of my period. I forget that most women/girls don't have that issue.
..... and the pain... oh GOD the pain....
my body would be covered in goose bumps from sweating from the pain and then being chilled from the sweating... but I never told a soul-- I didn't want to anger anyone or to get picked on.(had bullies in my family too)

I finally saw a doc in my thirties and went on the pill-- No more pain and the periods-- Doc said-- "this is what it's like for most women"-- I couldn't believe it -- I didn't have to double layer the pads, or change every hour-- I found a new freedom!!

such things females have to deal with and some of us-- without any compassion ..... ugh......

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So sorry you and so many of us had such awful starts into womanhood.....
You are all in my heart
why are some people so cruel to young ones?

about those of you that used toilet paper....
I forget that my situation is not of the average(VERY heavy periods), I'd be changing the TP every 30 minutes or my pants would be soaked the first 3 days of my period. I forget that most women/girls don't have that issue.
..... and the pain... oh GOD the pain....
my body would be covered in goose bumps from sweating from the pain and then being chilled from the sweating... but I never told a soul-- I didn't want to anger anyone or to get picked on.(had bullies in my family too)

I finally saw a doc in my thirties and went on the pill-- No more pain and the periods-- Doc said-- "this is what it's like for most women"-- I couldn't believe it -- I didn't have to double layer the pads, or change every hour-- I found a new freedom!!

such things females have to deal with and some of us-- without any compassion ..... ugh......
Thank you, purple_fins. You're very kind.
I am glad that you found the doctor that helped you control those heavy periods.
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Default May 13, 2011 at 11:29 AM
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I was 12 when I started. I was living with my Dad but I was such a curious child and took up the responsibility of finding out about puberty by myself and knew what was going to happen to me since I was around 8. I used what was given to us by our health teacher, and then resorted to toilet paper for a couple months cause I was too embarrassed to tell my Dad what I needed (he knew I had gotten my period cause I told him but it just didn't "click" at the time that it meant there was a new item to add to the shopping list). Then he finally realized why toilet paper was disappearing so quickly every month and started buying pads for me. He still does when I'm too sick to go out.

I think I'm quite lucky to have a father who doesn't complain and isn't too embarrassed to go to that section of the store by himself.

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Default May 20, 2011 at 03:29 AM
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after reading these other posts, I feel so fortunate

I was in grade 8. I think all the girls in my class started that same year. Our mothers were not really present. We talked amongst ourselves. Supported each other. And as we were all babysitting, we all had money to buy feminine products and we discussed which were better, how to put the tampon in etc.. The gym locker room was a hoot.... all of us girls trying to figure it out together... kind of like the blind leading the blind. It is actually a good memory.

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Default May 23, 2011 at 09:15 PM
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A couple weeks after my 10th birthday

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Default May 24, 2011 at 03:32 PM
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Day of my 9th birthday. Had no idea what it was. Scary. Ever since then they are so irregular, even with meds. I can go 4-5 months without then start and go for a month.
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Default May 28, 2011 at 02:29 AM
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I was almost 9yr when i started. I was in daycare when they noticed i was in the bathroom for a really long time.. lol I thought i was dieing or something.. so they gave me a few pads and told me what it was all about -sorta.

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