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Old Feb 08, 2012, 02:42 PM
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I feel so unattractive. The world hates ugly. Ugly men can get away with looking all fat and lumpy. But woman need to look a certain way or they're thrown away.

I feel like crap.

I wish there wasn't such pressure on how people looked. All mirrors should be shattered.
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Old Feb 08, 2012, 04:17 PM
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I feel so unattractive. The world hates ugly. Ugly men can get away with looking all fat and lumpy. But woman need to look a certain way or they're thrown away.

I feel like crap.

I wish there wasn't such pressure on how people looked. All mirrors should be shattered.
Just in case anyone is wondering I still feel gross. But not as gross as before. The receptionist at my psychiatrist office had such a huge set of boobs it pissed me off.
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Old Feb 08, 2012, 04:21 PM
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Just in case anyone is wondering I still feel gross. But not as gross as before. The receptionist at my psychiatrist office had such a huge set of boobs it pissed me off.
I mean...seriously what is up with those boobs?

They were massive and the girl was just a skinny little thing. My guess is that they are fake. Of course, I couldn't ask that but I can think it.

..ok maybe I'll ask next time.
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Old Feb 08, 2012, 05:16 PM
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Stardustedforever, Hi, I know what you mean, kind of, at least. I have an obese niece that lives in the south. She is an admitted lesbian, but at present, I don't think she has a live-in. This niece just completed a sold out show in a major city here in American that ran for a couple of weeks. A one woman show with singing and comedy. She has tons of friends, a bawdy attitude and is/will overcome the sterotypical fat girl image. She's blazing some trails to open up awareness about
not being the cover girl image.

Yep the girl was likely filled with artifical components. LOL Take Care, being beautiful can be a wonderfully happy self. Hugs, bj
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Old Feb 08, 2012, 06:08 PM
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Big jubblies or not, its whats insides that counts, and you are a lovely, beautiful person stardustedforever and i want you to know it

*besides i actually prefer smaller boobies, i think this is because mine are big enough to smack me in the face whenever i get a bounce in my step
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Old Feb 09, 2012, 05:27 AM
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Big jubblies or not, its whats insides that counts, and you are a lovely, beautiful person stardustedforever and i want you to know it

*besides i actually prefer smaller boobies, i think this is because mine are big enough to smack me in the face whenever i get a bounce in my step
LOL!

Thanks for the compliment.

Sometimes I just get sick of seeing all these perfect looking pictures of women on TV, internet, movies etc. I know I'm not perfect and will never be. It doesn't matter how many hours I spend at the gym or what new skin care crap I buy.
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Old Feb 09, 2012, 02:07 PM
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I feel so unattractive. The world hates ugly. Ugly men can get away with looking all fat and lumpy. But woman need to look a certain way or they're thrown away.

I feel like crap.

I wish there wasn't such pressure on how people looked. All mirrors should be shattered.
I feel like this all the time. It gives me a lot of anxiety to allow anything to progress past a friendship because I feel like I won't look good enough for them. I expect them to expect perfection, even though I don't expect it in return.
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Old Feb 09, 2012, 05:43 PM
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The funny thing is.. I know very few women that are actually happy with the way they look -- regardless of what they look like, stereotypically attractive or otherwise. Everyone has doubts and insecurities.

Sorry you're feeling down. Try to remember that you are not what other people think of you, that you are beautiful, and worthy of love and loving.
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Old Feb 09, 2012, 06:37 PM
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i have low self esteem so one way for me to over come this is i learned to stop comparing myself to others.
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Old Feb 10, 2012, 06:27 AM
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I feel like this all the time. It gives me a lot of anxiety to allow anything to progress past a friendship because I feel like I won't look good enough for them. I expect them to expect perfection, even though I don't expect it in return.
I know what you mean. Everyday I ask my husband if I look OK. I stand there naked pointing at things I don't like. My eating is fine. I could cut down on the cookies but I don't obsess over food.

Recently, I had a fitness evaluation and the trainer told me I should be doing cardio five days a week. I freaking hate cardio.
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Old Feb 10, 2012, 06:30 AM
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The funny thing is.. I know very few women that are actually happy with the way they look -- regardless of what they look like, stereotypically attractive or otherwise. Everyone has doubts and insecurities.

Sorry you're feeling down. Try to remember that you are not what other people think of you, that you are beautiful, and worthy of love and loving.
Thank you. And no matter what we look like today time will change it. I'm trying to let go of my quest/disappointment in my physical appearance. It's hard. Men don't have the same pressures. They're not expected to prance around in four inch heels with their boobs pushed up to their chins.
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Old Feb 10, 2012, 06:32 AM
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i have low self esteem so one way for me to over come this is i learned to stop comparing myself to others.
I need to learn that because I do that excessively. I'll look online and see a model and without even realizing it I start calculating body measurements as compared to my own. I ALWAYS lose.
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Old Feb 22, 2012, 04:45 PM
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I know what you mean. Everyday I ask my husband if I look OK. I stand there naked pointing at things I don't like. My eating is fine. I could cut down on the cookies but I don't obsess over food.

Recently, I had a fitness evaluation and the trainer told me I should be doing cardio five days a week. I freaking hate cardio.

And what does your husband tell you?
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