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Feb 29, 2012 at 06:22 PM
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I am ashamed to talk about this very much. I never talk about it with someone but I need advice.I am virgin and afraid of doing 'it' much.I was ready in 15-17.but now I can't let someone touch me....too big to be afraid right?I am not afraid of pain which is natural I mean when smth in my organism causes me pain by its own but when someone causes a pain it is really hard for me.or maybe the problem isn't that .maybe it has menthal reason.
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Mar 02, 2012 at 07:17 PM
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I kind of feel the same.
I'm pretty young, but then I get nervous when I think of having sex with someone too. I can't even handle having a relationship with a guy. I also get painful orgasms as well, but I think that's due to the Voices. I'm not sure how I'd react, but I'd guess if it makes you anxious you could always talk to a therapist. If you really want to stay a virgin, then you could always do that to. I know that I might stay a virgin for a long time. |
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Mar 03, 2012 at 12:50 AM
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See if any of this makes any sense to you: http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditio...ain-during-sex
Hugs, bj __________________ The scientists’ religious feeling takes the form of a rapturous amazement at the harmony of natural law, which reveals an intelligence of such superiority that, compared with it, all the systematic thinking and acting of human beings is an utterly insignificant reflection.Albert Einstein |
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Mar 03, 2012 at 04:15 PM
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While the first time can be a bit scary and you will probably feel some apprehension. Intercourse is supposed to be pleasurable not painful. I would first see a gynecologist and determine if you have a physical/medical issue. The site on WebMD that Callmebj included may be really helpful. Anyway I would try to get to the bottom of this. Finally I would never suggest that you jump in the sack with just anybody to get it over with. As a woman God made you a beautiful creature and you deserve the best and a compassionate loving relationship in which to find fulfillment
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Mar 24, 2012 at 02:47 PM
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thank you all for reading and writing.
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