Masturbation...

idek · Jun 13, 2013 at 02:56 PM

I'm only young, but I know about these things. I have been told about sexual issues by teachers, my sisters, my mother and my friends. The thing is though, a few of my friends, boys and girls, have asked me if I have ever masturbated. They have told me that they have and it's perfectly normal and healthy, but how exactly do I do it? Sorry if it's too weird or whatever xD

hamster-bamster · Jun 14, 2013 at 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by idek

I'm only young, but I know about these things. I have been told about sexual issues by teachers, my sisters, my mother and my friends. The thing is though, a few of my friends, boys and girls, have asked me if I have ever masturbated. They have told me that they have and it's perfectly normal and healthy, but how exactly do I do it? Sorry if it's too weird or whatever xD

It was suggested to me by somebody when I was a teen, but I did not feel anything trying to touch myself. So I stopped - there was no point. Several years later, I discovered it by myself, without even making a mental connection to the failed attempt several years earlier.

Most people do have this ability earlier, though.

Just saying that you might not feel anything immediately, due to age.

If you want to try watching videos about how to do it, I am sure doing web searches for "Betty Dodson" will bring up lots - she is a classic author in the field of female masturbation. I have not watched any, but she must have a whole suite of offerings. A picture or a video is probably worth a thousand words.

Jacki~ · Jun 14, 2013 at 12:48 PM

I support your reply. I also noticed you have a few 'activities' listed. I find that if I walk or ride my bike........ Slow as a snail, at times, my mood and demeanor lighten. Any thoughts on this? I hope I can find your reply. I came across this posting of yours because I wrote a few items and don't know how, yet, to follow postings.

Namete'

idek · Jun 14, 2013 at 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

It was suggested to me by somebody when I was a teen, but I did not feel anything trying to touch myself. So I stopped - there was no point. Several years later, I discovered it by myself, without even making a mental connection to the failed attempt several years earlier.

Most people do have this ability earlier, though.

Just saying that you might not feel anything immediately, due to age.

If you want to try watching videos about how to do it, I am sure doing web searches for "Betty Dodson" will bring up lots - she is a classic author in the field of female masturbation. I have not watched any, but she must have a whole suite of offerings. A picture or a video is probably worth a thousand words.

Ohh, okay, thank you

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Melinae · Jun 14, 2013 at 01:49 PM

Put on some sexy music and see what comes up. Follow the yearning

ocdwifeofsociopath · Jun 14, 2013 at 03:43 PM

you don't have to masturbate if you don't feel like. when you're body is going to want it, you'll know what to do. trust me. and as far as you're friends go, it's none of their business what you do in you're bedroom. tell them to lay off with too much personal information!

growlithing · Jun 14, 2013 at 04:10 PM

First, learn about your own anatomy. When you know what's down there, you'll know how to do it. Maybe watch a sex plus video on masturbation by lacigreen on YouTube.

Sorry for being kinda vague. I'd be more specific but I don't know how graphic I am allowed to be on this site

healingme4me · Jun 15, 2013 at 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by idek

I'm only young, but I know about these things. I have been told about sexual issues by teachers, my sisters, my mother and my friends. The thing is though, a few of my friends, boys and girls, have asked me if I have ever masturbated. They have told me that they have and it's perfectly normal and healthy, but how exactly do I do it? Sorry if it's too weird or whatever xD

When I was only young, one of my therapists handed me this book...
Our Bodies, Ourselves, 2011 edition - Our Bodies Ourselves

Everything you want to know about yourself, is in here.....

Jun 19, 2013 at 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by idek

I'm only young, but I know about these things. I have been told about sexual issues by teachers, my sisters, my mother and my friends. The thing is though, a few of my friends, boys and girls, have asked me if I have ever masturbated. They have told me that they have and it's perfectly normal and healthy, but how exactly do I do it? Sorry if it's too weird or whatever xD

How old are you?

LiteraryLark · Jun 19, 2013 at 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

How old are you?

Just fyi, the Women's section is for women only. Men are not supposed to be posting in this forum.

Jun 19, 2013 at 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Just fyi, the Women's section is for women only. Men are not supposed to be posting in this forum.

whoops i'm sorry.

LiteraryLark · Jun 19, 2013 at 10:59 PM

Its okay, just a general rule.

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Melinae Member Member Since May 2008 Location: Kittyville Posts: 147 15 67 hugs given	Jun 14, 2013 at 01:49 PM #5 Put on some sexy music and see what comes up. Follow the yearning __________________ http://www.BeyondMeds.com
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ocdwifeofsociopath Member Member Since May 2013 Posts: 480 10 16 hugs given	Jun 14, 2013 at 03:43 PM #6 you don't have to masturbate if you don't feel like. when you're body is going to want it, you'll know what to do. trust me. and as far as you're friends go, it's none of their business what you do in you're bedroom. tell them to lay off with too much personal information!
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growlithing Magnate Member Since May 2013 Location: Boston Posts: 2,608 10 53 hugs given	Jun 14, 2013 at 04:10 PM #7 First, learn about your own anatomy. When you know what's down there, you'll know how to do it. Maybe watch a sex plus video on masturbation by lacigreen on YouTube. Sorry for being kinda vague. I'd be more specific but I don't know how graphic I am allowed to be on this site
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Jun 19, 2013 at 10:59 PM #12 Its okay, just a general rule.
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