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Default Aug 26, 2013 at 07:53 PM
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I just ran into an acquaintance who had reconstruction of one breast following mastectomy. She looks great. Really great. She has large breasts, and the reconstruction looks great, and she does not hide her breasts - she always wears low neckline tops, and looks fantastic.

Since you are smaller breasted (I assume so based on your weight which is low for your stature), it should be easier to reconstruct your right breast.
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Default Aug 26, 2013 at 10:39 PM
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Hey, you can blame it on your appearance, but i really think whats standing in your way are those expectations you have. When i was a lot younger I used to want someone who was basically perfect. Then after a while I realized how boring that would be.
Unless by some fluke, you'll never meet anyone who is 'perfect' in all aspects to you. So perfect, no. Compatible, yes.
If you find a guy that you like, make sure you communicate with him. Tell him things that would really make you angry/ are deal breakers. You said you were more attracted to men over 18-20ish. Not sure how old you are. But why not date guys in that age range? High school doesnt have to be your whole world, even if thats where you are during the day.

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Default Sep 05, 2013 at 06:45 AM
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You can have a scarred up body and still be beautiful and attractive and a man that loves you for you, will love your body's imperfections!

I had a breast mammoplasty many years ago. Truly, men like breasts, even with scars on them!

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Yes, I have acute scoliosis that rotates my ribcage to my left side, and is bigger than my right. My spine is visible along with my ribcage, due to my weight being 115. My left side of my back is humped while my right is completely straight. Also, a scar that is underneath my right breast is really small compared to my left breast. I had to do with the fact that when I was 4, they took out some tissue and it never grew back normally.

They did give me an option to take away my scars, but I don't want to worsen my scoliosis. They did say they can reconstruct my right breast by the time I am 18. My ribcage and breasts are all that I'm worried about.
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