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Grand Magnate
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Aug 06, 2013 at 09:12 AM
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You often hear men talk about "nice guys finish last" and you hear them speak about being put in the "friend zone"......but the same thing happens to us......
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Aug 06, 2013 at 10:42 AM
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Definitely. Girl Code.
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Aug 06, 2013 at 11:22 AM
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True, true, true...
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Aug 06, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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Hell, I don't even make it to the friend zone...more like the "acquaintance zone" for me.
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Sep 15, 2013 at 03:51 PM
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Yup. Being friend zoned sucks.
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Sep 15, 2013 at 07:26 PM
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I've been 'friend-zoned' with a twist. Like a Sister or a Therapist.
  It sucked, hated going through that, seriously?! (then again, the timing for the new girlfriend, came out as truth, as starting earlier than, um, that 'talk') whatever! :eyesroll: Past is the Past, glad I endured, lived to see a better, brighter future with someone else, no more 'friend zone' here 
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Sep 15, 2013 at 07:37 PM
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^^^^hey, should I establish an 'invoice'?
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Sep 15, 2013 at 08:12 PM
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What's so wrong about the friend zone?
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Sep 16, 2013 at 09:37 PM
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poppy, nothing if you have other people around you that you like and have potential with. everything, if he's your only bet.
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Oct 03, 2013 at 01:58 PM
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In my experience, if men don't want to date you or do you, then you might as well not exist. No guy I have ever known has ever pressed for a friendship. If he says he just wants to be friends, that's just his attempt at saying, "Not interested, get lost."
Edit: Actually, there have been a couple guys in my past that pretend to want to be friends for a little while after I rejected them once. They will play the part of the cool, nice guy for a while. Then they have tried to get with me again and after rejecting them for a second time, they go completely psychotic/hater/stalker mode and call me every name in the book and then they never want to see or talk to me again. |
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Oct 04, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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Oct 06, 2013 at 06:31 PM
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Yep I have been friend-zoned! (I also friend-zone a lot of guys.. without always trying to mind you! So I've also probably friend-zoned myself...haha. I am bad at picking up on cues).
Tend to either get treated like a sister or like one of the guys. While "nice guys" think that girls all want to be with "bad boys" or whatnot... the guys will pass right over you if you aren't "hot". A lot will hold out and then friend-zone you, only to then go to you when the more attractive girl turned 'em down. Wow! Sorry, I just sort of made myself crack up laughing with just how stereotypical that is and how wrong it feels to say. But it is an observation I've made over the years with my own experiences. __________________ "The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..." "I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am. |
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Oct 06, 2013 at 11:01 PM
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