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Old May 30, 2015, 11:45 PM
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Is sex supposed to be painful afterwards?
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Old May 31, 2015, 04:15 AM
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There can be some soreness. How painful is it?
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Old May 31, 2015, 05:17 AM
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in general, no. Are you wet enough? You may need some KY lubricant until you get used to things.
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Old May 31, 2015, 07:58 AM
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About a 3 on pain scale. And I think I was wet enough on my own.
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Old May 31, 2015, 04:30 PM
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The first time can be painful for a lot of women. Probably due to the fact that it is all new and tense and lubrication may not be as extensive as at first. Most women find that goes away after a few times and that under the right circumstances with the man you love it is truly pleasurable and one of God's greatest gifts to us all
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Old Jun 01, 2015, 07:01 PM
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It can be painful after the first time or two. I takes a little getting used to. After the first few times there should not be as much discomfort.
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Old Jun 08, 2015, 03:38 PM
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When the hyman tears, that can be a little discomfort.

Were you emotionally tense? Is this someone you feel emotionally close to?
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Old Jun 08, 2015, 03:48 PM
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I missed where it said first time. Yes, definitely. I was tense the first time and it was very painful. It took another try or two and then it was painless.
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