[brokenandalone1234]

I am at an age now where my biological time clock has started to tick faster I will be 26 in June and I want a baby bad. My fiancé is dead set on finding a job in the field he just got done with school for and getting his time in. He says us having a baby right now would stop him from being able to do so even though he is currently employed right now but hates his job. Last night the baby subject came up again. He told me the other day if he doesn't have a new job by September or October that we would start trying for a baby. Well that isn't good enough for me I want to start trying right now. He told me last night to cherish these moments of no baby and an easy life. How do I explain to him that I don't want these moments? I want the getting woke up 3 or 4 times maybe more every night to have to feed a baby. I want it taking extra long to leave the house because I have to get the baby ready to go. I want all that comes with being a mother. How do I convince him to start trying now? I get severely jealous seeing moms with their children. The jealousy is almost to a point that I hate moms for having what I don't. I need my fiancé to see that we can start trying now and it will be fine. Please help me and please don't judge me. I know all women have gone through this same thing.

[Smileonmyface]

I had similar thoughts that is hard. just wanted to say I can empathize.
for whatever it's worth I had my first at 31 and my second at 34. you do have time.

when I was 26 I was with a man who was emotionally abusive and I am glad we didn't have any kids together.
not that that is your situation at all, just to say that it sounds like you are further along in your life as far as being ready to have kids than I ever was at 26.

hugs.

[brokenandalone1234]

I am glad someone can relate. I am very ready to have children. I have always been told I am more mature than a lot of people my age. My fiance and I both have really good jobs. We have our own house that we are buying not renting. I understand that being a mom is hard and that sometimes as a mother you have to go without to make sure your kids have what they need.