[puzzclar]

I really want to have sex again, but I'm not sure which part of me wants it.... I've been told by my parents that abstinence is the best method... but I just don't know. I had it for the first time last week, and liked it, there's no risk of pregnancy right after your period and if we use condoms right?

I just don't know, I have a sexual addiction and I'm afraid that I'm listening to that side of me. What do I do?

[Angelique67]

The first thing I'd do is find a good birth control method. But remember, only condoms offer any protection against STDs. Good luck and don't feel guilty.

[Jan1212]

There's always a risk for pregnancy but in a common 28-day cycle it is low depending on how long your period lasts. Adding condoms to that makes the risk very low. Is it a self diagnosed addiction if you just started last week? It's normal to want sex. But if it gets in the way of living a healthy and normal life, I'd speak to a therapist. I haven't been having safe sex with more than one partner... Even though I know my risks, it's unhealthy for me

[healingme4me]

Typically the highest fertile days are two days before and after your cycle.

Abstinence is the safest method for avoiding pregnancy and stds. It can also be a useful lesson in preserving your heart and emotions.
Not certain one time makes for a sex addiction? What leads you to believe that you have an addiction?

[puzzclar]

He didn't come inside me. But I'm still worried. Then he wanted to hurt himself. ...he is now getting help. I was addicted to pain down there, now I like the pleasure more so its decreased in desire to harm.

[healingme4me]

It's positive to find pleasure.

What brought on your partners collapse?

[puzzclar]

Not being allowed to see me by his controlling dad. He is 20 but not allowed to grow up. His dad doesn't like me and I haven't even met him yet. Lots of feelings that need to be processed. ..