I posted this in another forum but want women's opinion. If you have been in such situation, then please let me know how to feel good about myself.
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I went to don't know what to call him... so, this is a guy. he was my friend till he wanted to have sex with me. I'm asexual and sex isn't normal for me. I told him this and we moved away. I missed our friendship and didn't want to lose another friend in my life.
He told me his wife has asked him for divorce and he was very depressed. I felt bad for him. We met and he took me to house. Told me how his wife has cheated on him and all bad bad things about her. He has he has lost the love he had for her and he wants me. He moved to my town last year and his wife didn't accompany him. She hasn't visited him here ever.
It was late and he suggested me to stay over. When I went to his room to change, I saw how he has showcased his picture with his wife. He told me it is old one. But, it shattered me. On one end he was telling me he wants me and on the other hand he still has the picture showcased. Definitely, his relation with his wife isn't that bad. Otherwise, why would he showcase the picture in a house where he moved just a month back and when he feels bad about her.
Moreover, if he still loves her, why he wants me? I'm not a sexual toy. I don't have any desire for sex. He can't love me, then why he called me back. I feel betrayed

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I can understand how you would feel betrayed. No matter what he says it doesn't sound like he is over his wife. I agree that if he has moved on that he would still have a picture of her displayed. I would be careful with moving to fast with this guy. He may need more time to overcome his ex.