[kelseyy.lauren]

Last Thursday I had sex for the first time. I wasn't thinking straight at all. I have been sexually assaulted before, and since last week I have been really upset even though this was consensual. I know I need to talk about this with my therapist but I don't know if I will if she has to tell my parents.
So my question is, if I tell my therapist that I lost my virginity will she have to tell my parents?
I am a 15 yr old female and he had just turned 16 yrs old the week before. I am turning 16 yrs old in 3 weeks. The age of consent in my state is 16. I have known him for 2-3 yrs and we both had never had sex before. He wore a condom and it didn't break. I have an eating disorder and my period is irregular but I bought a pregnancy test anyway and I will do it in a few days just to see. I might go to Planned Parenthood and get STD test done just to be sure (I have horrible anxiety about this crap) We aren't a couple and honestly we hadn't even been talking except for the past 2 weeks. It just kinda happened. This is just some info if it may help answer the question.
Because of my trauma I am having some stuff come up that I need to talk about but I CANNOT have my mother know about this.
So does anybody know if my therapist would have to tell my mom if I talked to her about this?

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[shezbut]

I don't think that your T is allowed to share any news like this with anyone. Try not to worry about that and perhaps write down how you're feeling, and share that with your T.

[TishaBuv]

You can ask the therapist if you tell her something you do not want your mother to know, will she tell her. She won't lie to you.

Then go ahead and tell all to her. She's there to help you.

[brokenandalone1234]

Your T doc will not have to share it with your parents as it was not illegal per say. That is the only time your T doc is required to report it is if a child was abused than they have to report it to CPS at least. You can tell your T doc and I suggest you to do. I was a victim of child molesation when I was 16 and I regret not telling anyone for fear of them asking were you a virgin before this happened because I wasn't. If you regret doing it talk to someone anyone. I know how it can eat at you when you live with that kind of pain of having sex after a assualt. It has been almost 10 years since my sexual assualt and sometimes I still feel a little weird having sex with my fiance. He was not in the picture when the assualt happened to me but I feel weird because of the fact that I feel like I was to blame for the assualt and I never told anyone about it.