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May 13, 2016 at 03:07 PM
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i like that when i think i am hideous he is still attracted to me. that with all the crazy of the past 9 years and he hasn't gone anywhere. i like his strength and that he is superman to me. i like that when he holds me i feel small but protected. i like that he is everything to our two little girls and that they have him wrapped around their little fingers. and lastly i like that he will act like my boobs are so sexy when they are really so small.
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May 18, 2016 at 03:35 PM
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To be honest, in general I don't like men (I'm not gay). But once in a while I see or meet a man who I do like. What I liked about the last one; he's tall and toned, his voice, his smile, his arms, his kindness, manners, the way he dresses.
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May 23, 2016 at 09:31 PM
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Finally thought of a gender specific thing I like just about men!! Every guy I know wants me to walk on the inside(with them closest to the cars) whenever there is traffic. I think it's very sweet that they are protective like that.
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May 23, 2016 at 11:05 PM
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current boyfriend who is showing me things I have been missing for a number of years...I am very small and after being with very tall men I have found that this man fits me SO well...he is a short man but actually more physically blessed in the sexual department than any of the other men I have been with, and he knows how to USE it! I love his hands, his eyes, his smile, his playfulness, ...those are things I like in a man in general. Mostly I am infatuated with this man, and love how I only have to tiptoe just a little to put my arms around his neck to kiss. It's all very new
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May 23, 2016 at 11:17 PM
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A man who....
Has specific goals and actively works toward them. Doesn't sway on his convictions and is always who he was the day before. Is strong and takes care of himself. Thinks positively and inspires positivity and motivation in his peers. Is educated and utilizes critical thinking in conversation, work, and problem-solving. Is handy and can fix things around the house, but enjoys doing so naturally. Is calm and not at all prone to fits, jealousy, narcissistic behavior, or the like. Loves children and can always make them smile. Has commitment in all areas of life as one of his primary values. Has never done anything to disappoint me, simply as a result of his character. This is my fiance.    I would've considered all that far too picky before I bet him
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May 24, 2016 at 01:51 PM
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It's supposedly a really old custom. But unfortunately some men don't get it or don't know to do that. I also like it when they let me walk ahead of them onto (for example) a bus or onto an escalator. Also, opening his car door and seating me first, then going over the driver side to get in himself. My ex-bf did this all the time. And I LOVED it. Felt so protected and looked after...... 
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May 31, 2016 at 03:50 AM
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May 31, 2016 at 03:56 AM
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A sexy deep voice, A man that smells good, A good cook, Some one that can make me laugh all the time, Some one with a serious side but sensitive side at the same time, I cant stand some one that is egotistical or a narcassist
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Jun 03, 2016 at 02:10 PM
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I'm bisexual and honestly more interested in women. But when I like a man it's usually a black guy. I was sexually abused by a white guy, and somehow black guys seem less scary.
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Jun 03, 2016 at 02:16 PM
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I love a deep voice and a beard or goatee. Not crazy about the mustache, by itself. A man who is kind, considerate, articulate and literate.
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Jun 06, 2016 at 04:34 AM
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Oct 04, 2016 at 08:55 AM
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I've been hurt by men & recently even more.
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Oct 05, 2016 at 06:06 AM
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I like a sense of humor. A caring heart. The fact he sends me good morning texts! Puppy dog eyes. His love of life and that he has no fear showing it! When he pulls me in for a hug and has to lean down because he's so much taller.
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Oct 05, 2016 at 03:43 PM
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I liike a guy who cares. My husband is taking care of a lot of stuff and he doesn't have to. He has manners and listens to me when I talk to him. Even though he's sweet he doesn't show a lot of affection, but he'll kiss me every now and then. He's been a good role model for my daughter.
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Oct 06, 2016 at 05:15 AM
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Eyes, face, humor, kindness, sex. The basics.
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Oct 08, 2016 at 06:22 AM
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I like how they are just like dogs.
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Oct 08, 2016 at 01:03 PM
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Oct 09, 2016 at 02:08 AM
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In the past it was their eyes, their hair, also someone with depth, who was honest and intelligent, I liked muscular men, big biceps were a turn on, being a leftie and interested in politics helped. I also liked being respected and that they liked me for me. Being interested in music helped. As the poster above said, now I avoid it, am hurting from someone a lot at the moment, so wouldn't go near one again. Also it wouldn't be fair on them, I have done enough damage.
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Oct 10, 2016 at 12:05 PM
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It's just like women are demonized if they work and not stay home. But it's okay for a man to work and not stay home.
I wish I had that kind of strength. It's convenient; they don't usually need help moving heavy stuff.
Men seem to be more straightforward----if a man is your enemy at work, you KNOW he's your enemy. Unlike women (not all, I know) who will smile and act like your friend but stab you in the back the first chance she gets.
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